DR. WALLACE: I'm 13, and my parents give me an allowance of $7 a week. Well, they might as well not give me any money. Of the $7, I must put $5 in the bank, and then I must turn in a paper each Saturday at noon listing how I spent every penny of the $2 that I'm allowed to spend. Maybe, when they were young, they could buy a few things for $2 and still have a little left, but I couldn't even buy myself a hamburger unless it was at a special price.
Please think about this, too. If I want to buy something for $10, I have to wait over a month to buy it, and during this time, I can't spend one penny. When I ask why I can't spend more than $2 a week, I'm told that I'm learning the value of money. Well, Dr. Wallace, as you can see, I'm not learning very much. Help! — Bernard, Santa Fe, New Mexico
BERNARD: I'm all in favor of allowances. If supervised properly by parents, the child learns how to budget, save and spend wisely. Your parents are a bit rigid with the way they want your allowance used, but they may have a learning plan that I'm not familiar with.
Is it possible to earn a little money by volunteering to do extra jobs around the house? If the answer is yes, make sure you can earn enough to add a glass of milk when you buy that hamburger on special. But remember, many teens are not fortunate enough to receive an allowance of any kind.
INCREASED SECURITY IS A BETTER ANSWER
DR. WALLACE: School is almost out for Christmas break and my friends and I had plans to spend some free time touring our local mall. All that has changed because the mall has made a new rule that requires teens to be accompanied by an adult — or they can't enter the mall. During the summer, a few gangbangers caused a huge disturbance, and even the police had a difficult time restoring the peace. The stores in the mall complex voted to ban unchaperoned teens from shopping.
I think this is a stupid rule. Why punish many for the sins of a few? Aren't the storeowners aware that teens have a lot of purchasing power? Six of my friends and I wrote protest letters to the mall manager, but we didn't receive a reply. This is just another example of teens being harassed for no other reason except that they are not yet 18. Hassling teens is a good way to cause us to become militant! — Jennifer, New York
JENNIFER: Mall cruising has become a favorite teen pastime, and, as you mention, most teens who visit malls behave themselves. I understand the storeowners' concern: Customers want to shop in safety and will stay away if disturbances are common. Most laws that affect the many are enacted because of the irresponsible behavior of a few.
I'm not in favor of banning unchaperoned teens from the mall. Increased security is a better answer. This extra expense can be paid out of the increased revenue the teens would bring in.
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