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Should Girls Play on Boys' Teams?
DR. WALLACE: Do you think that high school athletic teams should have the best players on the squad regardless if the players include guys and girls? I'm writing a term paper on this subject and would like to include your opinion. Personally, I say yes to my question. - Sarah, Orlando, Fla.
SARAH: I'm a major fan of women's sports and proud of the progress female athletes have made in my lifetime, but I'm afraid you're not going to like my answer. Females should not participate on male teams in most sports and vice versa.
By no means does this mean that women are lesser athletes. Pound for pound and inch by inch, female athletes are equal to males — maybe even better. But one fact is inescapable. Men are taller and heavier than women. And in most sports, strength and size make the difference, and these attributes are extremely important to team success. That's why I firmly believe the sexes should be separated in athletics. As good as the female college players are, not one would ever be good enough to compete in the National Basketball Association. The same is true for the National Football League or Major League Baseball.
I concede that, at the junior-high and even high-school levels, a small percentage of girls are good enough to play on the boys' teams. However, I still don't think they should.
As a former head basketball coach at three high schools, I firmly believe that all young people should have maximum opportunity to participate in athletics. Participation is far preferable to mere spectating. This means that sports at all levels — not just boys' varsity sports — should be generously funded and supported by local school districts. Sadly, in years gone by, this was not the case. A mere generation ago, talented girls often had no sports outlets at all. We have inherited the legacy of this unfairness and have, I agree, a long way to go before female athletes enjoy full equality with males.
I just don't think the way to rectify this situation is through coed athletic competition, especially in the contact sports. And, of course, this is just my controversial opinion. Many people are bound to disagree. But this is why I love to write a column for teens. I have my opinion, but I respect yours.
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