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A Live Sister Who Hates Me is Better Than One in the Cemetery
DR. WALLACE: I'm so glad that you told the young girl to tell her parents that her older brother was starting to use drugs and alcohol, even though her brother threatened to kick her tail if she "narced" on him. I'd like to address my …Read more.
Alcoholics Can Never be Social Drinkers
DR. WALLACE: My father is definitely an alcoholic. He continues to work only because his boss is his best friend. I even heard the boss tell my dad that if he didn't cut down on his alcohol consumption, he might be forced to fire him.
The problem is …Read more.
Wearing a Seat Belt can Save a Life
DR. WALLACE: This letter is directed to teens who travel in a motor vehicle. Please buckle up, regardless of where you sit or how short the trip might be. Several weeks ago, I stopped at the scene of a violent automobile crash. Having medical …Read more.
Vibrating Belts do not Melt Body Fat
DR. WALLACE: I'm 17 and have excess fat on my upper legs, commonly known among females as "saddle bags." I've tried every kind of exercise possible to eliminate this fat, but nothing has worked.
A friend told me that her mother got rid of …Read more.
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Congratulations on Keeping Your CoolDR. WALLACE: Eric and I are both 17 and had been dating for about nine months. When we first started dating, Eric was upset because I didn't spend enough time with him. He felt he wasn't playing a prominent role in my life. Since I cared for him, I made a lot of changes.
I quit my part-time job, told my good friends goodbye and stopped visiting my grandmother -- all this so Eric and I could spend more time together. And we did. We saw each other every day at school, went out every Friday and Saturday night and studied together three school nights a week. Things were great for eight months. We discussed our future together and even how many children we were going to have (two, hopefully a boy and a girl). Then came the thunderbolt. Last week, Eric said he wanted to split up because we were spending too much time together. I was totally shocked, but tried to act cool and mature. I told him we should take a break for a couple of weeks and then make a decision about our relationship. Did I do the right thing? -- Nameless, Talladega, Ala. NAMELESS: Congratulations on keeping your cool. Perhaps Eric isn't quite as self-centered and petulant as he sounds, and a relationship with him maybe worth saving. If he is worth it, then you did the right thing, and he'll respond reasonably and perhaps even apologize for bringing on the over-closeness himself. But there's a lesson worth extracting from all this about how far you should go to accommodate a boyfriend. Don't give up friends, family or a job in order to satisfy his selfish demands. Continue to be yourself and live a balanced life. If he doesn't care about you for who you are, he doesn't care about you at all. MAKE INTELLIGENCE MOST IMPORTANT DR. I also want my date to possess a great sense of humor, have compassion, be caring, enjoy music and make me feel very special. Which of these traits should I look for first when deciding whether or not to date a guy? -- Kate, Atlanta. KATE: You have high standards. If you want your "future husband" to meet all of them, make intelligence the most important trait. You can encourage a guy to laugh at your jokes, to be compassionate and caring, to enjoy music and to make you feel special, but you can't encourage him to be intelligent. I CAN’T HAVE AN ABORTION DR. WALLACE: I'm 16, not married, but pregnant. Many of my friends and family members have encouraged me to have an abortion. I'm sorry that I'm pregnant, but I can't do that because it would haunt me the rest of my life. Do most unwed pregnant teens give birth or do they have an abortion? -- Nameless, Paterson, N.J. NAMELESS: According to MD magazine, about 60 percent give birth to their babies. The others choose to terminate the pregnancy. The magazine also reports that one out of every four unwed pregnant teens will be pregnant again the following year. Dr. Robert Wallace welcomes questions from readers. Although he is unable to reply to all of them individually, he will answer as many as possible in this column. E-mail him at rwallace@galesburg.net. To find out more about Dr. Robert Wallace and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com. COPYRIGHT 2009 CREATORS.COM
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