When we talk about "pro-life" in our national discussion about abortion, "life" is understood to be about the unborn child in the mother's womb.
But it would serve us well to expand our understanding about what "pro-life" means.
We should understand that respecting the sanctity of life is key to the values and behaviors in general that sustain and nourish all our lives today and create the necessary conditions for our future.
A just-released report from the National Center for Health Statistics, a unit of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, reports that the total number of births in the United States in 2018 was down 2 percent from 2017 and is the lowest number of births in the country in 32 years.
It also reports that the general fertility rate — the number of births per 1,000 women aged 15-44 — was also down 2 percent and is at a record low.
The total fertility rate needs to be 2,100 births per 1,000 women to keep our overall population at steady state — not shrinking. It now stands at 1,728 per 1,000 women.
If the alternative to "pro-life" is so-called "pro-choice," the mindset of legal abortion on demand, the latter is capturing, and destroying, American society. We are choosing to extinguish ourselves.
It turns out that "reproductive freedom," the banner under which "pro-choice" operates, translates into the freedom to not reproduce.
University of Southern California demographer Dowell Myers calls the declining birthrates we are witnessing a "barometer of despair."
Birthrates decline, according to Myers, when people are not optimistic about the future.
How about the general collapse of the marriage institution?
In 1960, 72 percent of Americans 18 and above were married. By 2016, this was down to 50 percent.
At a conference at the Vatican in 2014, Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, former chief rabbi of the United Kingdom, called marriage "the single most humanizing institution in history."
He said that life begins "when male and female meet and embrace."
"Morality," he continued, "is the love between husband and wife, parent and child, extended outward to the world."
A society in which sanctity of life is respected is a society that appreciates that we are all part of something larger than ourselves. When we lose this awe, this appreciation for the sacred, we disconnect from one another and disappear into our separate selves.
Love, marriage, children and our future begin to recede.
It's a spiritual tragedy with profound and destructive practical implications for society.
The Census Bureau projects that in 2035, for the first time, the number of Americans over the age of 65 will exceed the number of Americans under 18.
As society ages, the number of retirees per each working American increases — what is called the dependency ratio.
We are already seeing the implications with huge deficits in our social security and Medicare programs, where payroll taxes finance retirement and health care costs of the elderly.
A healthy pushback is starting to occur at the nation's grassroots.
States are getting aggressive to stop the destructive abortion culture. Most recently, Alabama and Georgia have enacted laws making abortion that is legal under federal law illegal in the state.
This puts state law on a collision course with federal law.
Whether this will wind up at the Supreme Court with a revisiting of the Roe v. Wade decision remains to be seen.
We should be praying it will happen.
The current abortion culture that has been defining America since the Roe v. Wade decision in 1973 is part and symptomatic of an America whose future is in danger.
We must fight for restoration of a pro-life culture in our country that respects the sanctity of life and will restore the American family, children and our future.
Star Parker is an author and president of CURE, Center for Urban Renewal and Education. Contact her at www.urbancure.org. To find out more about Star Parker and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com.
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