Struggle and frustration seem like common states that are part and parcel of being alive, when in fact they are entirely optional. These states are caused by resisting change or attempting to control the uncontrollable. Venus and Mars move into Aquarius. What do you really have control over? Where will your effort make a difference?

ARIES (March 21-April 19). For reasons unapparent, someone keeps popping into your mind. This is your intuition connecting on invisible wavelengths. Follow through. In retrospect, this will all make sense.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20). As much as you'd like to catch up on people's lives, you feel pulled to catch up on something internal first. Unplug and get back to being the sort of human that existed for thousands of years before pocket information streams.

GEMINI (May 21-June 21). Taking things too seriously squeezes out the fun. Not taking them seriously enough has its own set of problems. It's a dance you'll do to find just the right balance. In this you will succeed.

CANCER (June 22-July 22). You are too mature to let a trivial matter stand in the way of friendship, and yet it will be helpful to admit, if only to yourself, what you really think about things. By tomorrow it will be a dim memory.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). The heroes of yesteryear paved a trail for you. Maybe they weren't thinking of you when they did it. They were looking out for their own well-being. When you do the same, you never know who you'll end up helping.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). There's a decision to make. The risk is minimal, and the upside is obvious, yet this is not an easy "yes." There are other unseen complexities at work here. Trust your intuition.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). Exercise helps with moods, stress, sleep, energy, circulation and just about anything that could ail you now. When you think about the many benefits, you'll wonder how you don't make this a more sacred part of your life.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). You're strong, but there are still parts of you that need protection. You're learning where they are and how to fortify, accept or transcend them so you can drop your defenses and fly.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). Sorting, organizing and planning are in order. The tough part is deciding what stays and what goes. To say yes to your desire is to say no to something else. You're ready.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Experiment with different ways to express yourself. If there's a script to follow, you're the one writing it. Nothing is fixed here, and you are absolutely free to try what you wish.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). There's a wall of privacy and an aura of mystery surrounding you. Some struggle with knowing what information should be kept private, but you understand the appropriateness of sharing information.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). You may feel nervous about the uncertain situation you're in. Take this as an opportunity to think on your feet. Take the plunge. You'll come up with something interesting.

TODAY'S BIRTHDAY (March 5). Gifts will be sprinkled evenly through the year. Though you'll have the rush of getting precisely what you want when you want it, your favorite experiences center around your contribution to others. There is one person you are particularly helpful to; this relationship brings emotional highs and plot twists. Capricorn and Virgo adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 3, 32, 6, 16 and 40.

COSMIC QUESTION: "I seem to have a personality conflict with Capricorns. Two Capricorn women friends have dumped me without explanation. I get along great with the other earth signs, Taurus and Virgo. Why would this be?"

Capricorns are known for their drive and ambition. It's not that they're ruthless and power-hungry; they just don't have much patience for anything or anyone who doesn't have a clear-cut bearing on their goals. Capricorns tend to have a one-track mind: They see a mountain and they want to conquer it. They're able to compartmentalize their emotions quite easily, and if you happen to be a "feeler" rather than a "doer" you're likely to get your toes stepped on. It's nothing personal; they're just on their own trip and you're on yours. Taurus and Virgo use their energy somewhat differently than their fellow earth sign. Taurus is known for her steadfast loyalty. Though at times her larger-than-life personality can run you over like a bulldozer, she's totally on your side. Virgo just wants to feed you a healthy meal and then organize your closet. Anyway, don't write off all Capricorns. Among other things, they can be your ace in the hole when you're looking for a job.

CELEBRITY PROFILES: Eva Mendez has confessed that she'd rather be home with her husband Ryan Gosling and their children than walking the red carpets of Hollywood. But that doesn't mean that the Pisces actress and fashion designer won't return to big screen projects in the future. She was, after all, born when the moon was in Leo, the sign that rules children and also the entertainment business.

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