Says the poet Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, "this old idea/ I slip into again — a silk dress lined with glue." And so it goes, the seduction of habitual thinking, perhaps initially fitted to an elegant purpose and yet there is no elegance without flow and flexibility. The dress code for the square of Venus and Mars: new, adhesive-free ideas.
ARIES (March 21-April 19). You want to know that someone has your back and is willing and able to enter into the spirit of what you're doing to some extent, however pleasant or unpleasant that may be. So you test, and quite expertly!
TAURUS (April 20-May 20). The Spanish tradition of relaxing at the table after a heavy meal and talking for an hour or so is called sobremesa, or "over the table." Your day offers a similar opportunity to bond and share information.
GEMINI (May 21-June 21). Various lessons will be imparted, some seemingly more useful than others. Take note, regardless, to accommodate unforeseeable applications that will surely arise in the far-flung future.
CANCER (June 22-July 22). Just when you think you know where everything belongs, there's a country cat on a crosswalk; in the window of a high-rise, the silhouette of a mouse, or, in today's case, the non-animal equivalent of these things.
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). Though it might be convenient to be better and more widely understood, you're not willing to trade validation for your right to complexity. So those enigmatic parts of you remain, mysterious to all, even to yourself.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). When it's your game, you're allowed to write rules, name the prizes and dole out the hints, too. Consider also that the most popular and enjoyable games tend to, once established, stay consistent within their own limitations.
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). The innocence you once had will not return. In its place is a custom-made sword and shield, which you will use to defend the innocence of others, as you understand its preciousness more than anyone.
SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). You'll get the sneaking suspicion that someone is trying to live vicariously through you. It's not a terrible dynamic, as you are loved, tended to and supported, though sometimes held with too firm a grip.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). In a tweet of hope, author Anand Giridharadas writes, "We are falling on our face because we are jumping high." You've recently fallen, and it was for a good cause. Today's risk will be more temperate and graceful.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). Each emotion has its preferred animation style. Joy jumps. Melancholy settles. Jealousy creeps. Today, you may have feelings you can't name, but track their movement and later it will come to you.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). Many who seek attention are also looking for validation. You don't need that. You need people who want what you can offer. You focus not on showing off but on showing enough so that you can find your right audience.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). Just being where the conversation goes down is an initiation of sorts. All who witness are influenced and all who weren't there are outsiders on the matter. It's why you make an effort to be involved.
TODAY'S BIRTHDAY (Feb. 19). This year is a study in contrasts. As it becomes clear what you're doing, who to involve and how you feel about it, your productivity soars. The clear lines between what's for you and what's not for you make it easy to schedule and execute plans. You'll aim high with a goal and meet it in May. Virgo and Scorpio adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 8, 13, 2, 28 and 17.
WEEKEND LOVE FORECAST: ARIES: The same advice goes for love and money situations: Don't invest more until you start to see a return on your initial investment. TAURUS: Too much too soon is a bad sign and the word written on that sign is "co-dependency." GEMINI: Your aim is to make everyone feel special. Though, on a very practical level, it is necessary to prioritize people just like you prioritize other things in your life. CANCER: You'd like to be an oasis of love, though it takes certain conditions to create an oasis — much nurturing is necessary for your flourishing. LEO: You're interested in reliable people only and that's how you'll show up, too. VIRGO: Whatever you want in a relationship, you need to communicate those needs explicitly. LIBRA: It's futile to ignore the influence of the outside world on a relationship. The way other people see your relationship will make a difference in the way things play out. SCORPIO: Make a deal with yourself that you will be in charge of your emotions and don't allow yourself to fall for anyone who hasn't done the work to warrant it. SAGITTARIUS: You'll develop a better sense of what you want to share and which topics are off-limits. CAPRICORN: You've purged yourself of past pain and will have a fresh start. AQUARIUS: It takes a minute to get your bearings in a relationship, but now you know what cards you're holding and you're coming up with a strategy for how you want to play them. PISCES: What works is bland topics with great enthusiasm or spicy topics handled with nonchalance.
COUPLE OF THE WEEKEND: With the Gemini moon reflecting the radiance of the Aquarian sun, these two air signs lock onto one another with sizzling attraction. It plays out with the snappiness of a film noir damsel wise-cracking to the detective in such a way that makes the audience sure she committed the crime herself. Confessions of love sound like cutting wit, but they both know the language so translating is no problem.
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