Q: Both my wife and I are in our 80s, and we are up for updating our driving licenses next year.

My wife says she's going to stop driving after her next renewal date, as she believes it is time for her to quit. I prefer to drive for as long as I feel I can safely do so.

When do you plan to give up your license?

A: I lean toward driving as long as I believe I can without endangering myself or others. Our ability to drive greatly impacts our social lives. Without the freedom of transportation, many seniors fall prey to greater loneliness and depression.

By the same token, of course, we do not know when something might happen, and it's better to be safe than sorry. Therefore, it's important to assess these concerns carefully and figure out what's best for you.

If you want to keep driving, there are several things you should do to keep yourself in optimal shape. Eliminate all of your unnecessary driving problems.

Make sure you've had a recent eye check and a vehicle safety inspection, and that you have valid insurance. The AAA Auto Club offers driving classes that can help you, as well as financial benefits and discounts for your car needs.

Additionally, be careful of any distractions while driving. Try not to bring your pets in the car with you, but if necessary, avoid an accident by keeping them secured with a leash or pet carrier. Finally, do not mix driving with alcohol or medications. Seniors' reflexes are already lower because of their age, and you should avoid dulling them further.

Finally, listen to outside voices about quitting driving. You're not always the best at judging yourself.

Be open to accepting others' opinions, especially your family's. Abstain from driving at night, and don't be afraid to police yourself.

Treat driving like a responsibility, not a right! — Doug

AGING GRACEFULLY

Q: As I'm coming into my 70s, I'm seeing many of my friends and acquaintances aging rapidly before my eyes, both physically and mentally. But not all of them! Some people just seem to age better than others.

What can I do to thrive?

A: Many researchers have noticed a profound difference in how certain people age, calling some "superagers." Although these select few seem genetically blessed, it appears that attitude is a key to aging well.

Both cognitive and physical superagers share similar life philosophies that help them maintain their minds and bodies. According to Harvard Women's Health Watch, the best thing you can to is to keep challenging yourself as you age.

Although many older people are set in their ways, stepping outside of your comfort zone is the best way to stay youthful. Challenge yourself physically and mentally every day, and you will see major benefits.

Although you'll find yourself frustrated at times, power through adversity, and don't use your age as an excuse. Complacency will age you rapidly.

Embrace new challenges, and stay positive! — Emma, Doug's granddaughter

Doug Mayberry makes the most of life in a Southern California retirement community. Contact him at [email protected]. Emma, Doug's granddaughter, helps write this column. To find out more about Doug Mayberry and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com.