The report from the Arlington, Va., Police Department is, on its face, hardly newsworthy:
"SEXUAL BATTERY, 05/05/13, 500 block of S. 23rd Street. On May 5 at 12:35 am, a drunken male subject approached a female victim in a parking lot and grabbed her breasts and buttocks. The victim fought the suspect off as he attempted to touch her again and alerted police. Jeffrey Krusinski, 41, of Arlington, Va., was arrested and charged with sexual battery."
What makes it newsworthy is that Krusinski isn't just any drunken guy in a parking lot. He's the lieutenant colonel in charge of an Air Force program that is supposed to prevent sexual assault.
Embarrassing? To be sure. His bosses have been expressing shock and awe. According to the Air Force spokesman, "He was removed from his position today as soon as we were made aware of the charges pending the outcome of the investigation." Defense Secretary Chuck Hagel, who had committed to addressing the longstanding (and for too long, hidden) problems of sexual abuse in the military "expressed outrage and disgust over the troubling allegations" in a call with Air Force Secretary Michael B. Donley, according to Pentagon spokesman George Little. Hagel "emphasized that this matter will be dealt with swiftly and decisively."
Don't bet on it.
Oh, I have no doubt that Krusinski's career is over. But getting rid of one guy who gropes a woman in a parking lot is hardly going to deal with a problem that goes back decades.
Krusinski's mug shot shows his face covered with cuts of undisclosed origin. Maybe the woman got the better of him. Or maybe he was just falling-down drunk.
There is simply no underestimating the role of alcohol in sexual battery.
None. When you tally up the "cost" of alcohol, you have to add sexual abuse to the already long list of fatal accidents and pickled livers and lost work and failed judgment and children beaten and the rest. The most important advice I give to young people who want to avoid either being abused or being accused of it is to control their drinking. I have no doubt that "Krusinski sober" would never have done what "Krusinski drunk" did. And that is an explanation, not an excuse.
But the military has problems of its own, beyond the (big) problems faced by women in parking lots and frat houses and everywhere else civilians gather. A system in which rank precedes your name, in which orders are given and followed, in which "loyalty" is the paramount virtue, and in which women have been third- and fourth-class citizens so long that second class looks good is bound to be among the last plantations for sexual abuse. For decades, ruining a poor guy's career ("poor guy") when he's risked his life for his country "just because he had a few too many" has been a charge unfairly lobbed at the few women who dare to complain.
"The Invisible War," produced by Nicole Boxer, is a brilliant movie detailing the problem of rape in the military. Many courageous women have stood up to bear witness. Programs have been established — including the one that was run by the drunk in the parking lot.
Why is it so hard to make change happen? The short answer is this: You can change the rules on a formal basis, and you can create programs with the best of intentions, but until there are real changes in the culture, whether in the fraternity or the military, women will continue to be vulnerable to drunk and abusive men, in and out of uniform.
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In her article Ms Estrich stated: "But the military has problems of its own,...A system in which rank precedes your name, in which orders are given and followed, in which "loyalty" is the paramount virtue..."
Why are any of these things 'problems'? The US military services were created to kill and maim people and destroy property in the name of the people of the United States (not that anyone serving really wants that to come to pass). This isn't quite the same kind of job as practicing law or being a Physicist. It involves, at best, long periods away from home under less than optimal conditions. At worst, it can become a very nasty and brutish occupation. Motivating people to join the service, stay in for a career, and perform well over a twenty year career is difficult. The military system has evolved to take young kids, make them into warriors, have them perform well in combat, and get them out alive. It isn't the most egalitarian, intellectual, or democratic system out there, but it does work. The 'problems' listed above are a few of the unique traits that help a military to win wars and soldiers/sailors to survive combat. Do you want to reform the military to make it into an organization that is more 'caring', but doesn't win wars?
Ms. Estrich further stated: "...and in which women have been third- and fourth-class citizens so long that second class looks good is bound to be among the last plantations for sexual abuse."
This is absolutely ridiculous. I've served with plenty of fine individuals, both male and female, over the years. the vast majority have treated one another with respect and dignity. The services are no more misogynistic than the society from which they are formed. In fact, I would hazard to say that male/female relations are much better in the military than they are on any college campus. Any organization (even the bar) has a few bad apples. For example, even the office of the President has occasionally been occupied by individuals with less than stellar records for dealing with the opposite sex.
Finally, Ms. Estrich wrote: "For decades, ruining a poor guy's career ("poor guy") when he's risked his life for his country "just because he had a few too many" has been a charge unfairly lobbed at the few women who dare to complain."
This is the all too human practice of not believing the worst about your comrades and trying to protect them from the consequences of their own actions. Not the smartest activity in the world, but hardly unique to the military. I can site plenty of examples of lawyers, teachers, and politicians who have engaged in similar practices. In fact, I seem to recall an entire political party fell into this trap in the recent past. In a marvelous example of group think and special pleading this political organization blamed the female victims and not the senior politician (who was the "poor boy" in this case) for his entirely abysmal behavior. Perhaps if we want the military to perform better in this regard, we shouldn't make exceptions for politicians in high places?
Can the military do better regarding the treatment of the women in it's ranks? Of course. I can attest that the services spend a great deal of time and effort in this regard (In my opinion, almost to the point of endangering their primary mission). Is the military some awful fraternal/misogynistic organization? Absolutely not.
All in all Ms. Estrich, not one of your more thoughtful articles.
Comment: #1
Posted by: Old Navy
Tue May 7, 2013 4:45 PM
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Woman gets groped. Who cares? Move along, nothing to see here.
Comment: #2
Posted by: SusansMirror
Tue May 7, 2013 5:33 PM
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Which is more important, this incident or Benghazi? I'll be the liberal press gives this incident far more attention than Benghazi.
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Posted by: pb1222
Wed May 8, 2013 7:12 AM
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Question -
Was there a drunken female in the parking lot also. What went on in the bar before this incident?
I know it doesn't matter is rape occured, BUT groping may have been waranted.
Comment: #4
Posted by: Oldtimer
Thu May 9, 2013 7:54 AM
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Re: pb1222 Who made more wrong decisions that cost more lives. Bush with Iraq which cost allmost 5000 American Troop's lives as well as by our own official count 10,000s Iraqi innocent civilian lives
OR
4 members of the Foreign Service who even if the worst accounts are true died in service to their country the same way troops do in a war.
It's hard to take the Reich Wing's obsession with the death at Benghazi as anything but a test of "the big lie" theory. They want to see if they still have the ability to pulll the wool over all good American's eyes regarding their agenda by talking about the current Administration's possible mistakes that resulted in 4 deaths in hopes of making everyone forget that Republicans and Republican policy was responsible for almost 10,000 dead US Soldiers fighting in 2 wars that did NOT need to be faught, and one in particular (Iraq) where Americans who trusted their president learned later that he and his Republican administration LIED to get us to invade Iraq.
If Republicans insist on going to Benghazi, then Democrats should insist on returning to the topic of the massive, purposeful lies told in the run up to the invasion of Iraq.
the status of limitations on war crimes NEVER runs out.
Nancy Pelosi must be kicking herself right now.
For it was she who ensured no impeachment attempts would be brought in the House against the former president.
I hope she has finally learned that when it comes to Republicans any act of political civility will be repaid 100x over with contempt.
Comment: #5
Posted by: jonathan seer
Fri May 10, 2013 7:03 AM
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Re: jonathan seer
Bush lied, people died. People died, Obama lied.
However, Bush didn't lie; the world intelligence all said Iraq had weapons.
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Posted by: Oldtimer
Tue May 14, 2013 4:54 AM
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