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Undependence (Part 1) Dec. 19, 2018
As regular readers know, that's no typo. "Undependence" is my word for wholeness, the ability to be ... Read More
Postponing Undependence Oct. 10, 2018
Here are some common flimsy excuses for postponing one's undependence: —Men don't like indepen... Read More
Men and Undependence Aug. 08, 2018
There I was, sitting in the middle of a good-sized amphitheater, guest guru for a large Seattle grou... Read More
Male-Bashing -- How to Recognize and Avoid It Oct. 25, 2017
One day soon, in the middle of male-bashing with friends, you're going to discover that you're not p... Read More
Fusion Feminism Oct. 18, 2017
Again and again, my mind returns to the letters I receive from women discouraged and frustrated in t... Read More
Excuses for Delaying Your Undependence Sep. 21, 2016
—Men don't like independent women. —I can't afford to be on my own. —I'm only happ... Read More
Undependence and Understanding Apr. 15, 2016
DEAR SUSAN: Even if we accept that many or most of those who are "single" are in a relationship, the... Read More
