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A Quarterback's Bad Calls

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Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback Ben Roethlisberger is a bad guy. He may not be a rapist, in the sense that it can be proved beyond a reasonable doubt that he had nonconsensual sex, but not being guilty of a crime doesn't mean you're innocent. In my book, this guy should pay.

Twice in the past two years, Roethlisberger has faced accusations that he engaged in nonconsensual sex. A civil suit is pending based on a 2008 incident.

Most recently, the 28-year-old quarterback appears to have had sexual contact with a college coed after providing her and her sorority sisters with shots of alcohol at a Georgia bar. First he gave them drinks. Then his bodyguards reportedly "escorted" the drunken young woman into a small bathroom with Roethlisberger. When she came out of that room, her sorority sisters, apparently horrified, took her to the police and then to the hospital.

Earlier this week, the district attorney announced that he was not pursuing charges against Roethlisberger because there was not sufficient evidence to prove rape beyond a reasonable doubt: The girl was intoxicated. She and her family do not wish to press charges. While the medical evidence established lacerations in the vaginal area, only a "minute" amount of DNA evidence was recovered, and apparently no effort was made to establish a match with the quarterback.

Rape is a hard crime to prove. Almost by definition, there are rarely any witnesses. Most cases, particularly of the "acquaintance" variety, involve alcohol or drugs.

Bringing a case that you can't prove doesn't help anyone in the long run. A good prosecutor has a responsibility to convince himself that a would-be defendant is guilty, and a responsibility not to bring charges unless he believes he could also convince a jury of guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. To put the victim through the horror show of an impossible prosecution is a disservice to everyone.

If you doubt that, think about the Kobe Bryant case. He's back at the top of his game. She would be better off had no charges ever been filed.

But that doesn't mean that bad guys should get away with behaving badly. It just means that we need remedies other than criminal prosecutions — remedies that include civil sanctions and other penalties.

I hope the woman who was "escorted" into that bathroom and then emerged with lacerations and "minute" amounts of male sperm in her vagina sues Roethlisberger for millions. A civil suit requires only a preponderance of the evidence, not proof beyond a reasonable doubt. In a civil suit, the issue is not whether the defendant should be imprisoned, but whether he should pay.

Answering that question in the affirmative is, as it should be, a whole lot easier than finding guilt, especially when there are two women telling very similar stories. One woman may be destroyed as a nut and a slut. But two? Not so fast. And in a civil case, there is no question that all the testimony comes in.

The district attorney made clear that in deciding not to pursue charges, he was not condoning Roethlisberger's conduct that night. The prosecutor's office, he emphasized, is not in the business of enforcing morals. But the same is not necessarily true of the National Football League.

Like a university or an employer, the league and the team have a responsibility to demand more of people than the criminal law does. Organizations that hold themselves out as role models to young people should not let bullies and bad guys get away with abuse.

The answer to the difficulty of proving rape in the criminal justice system is not to change the rules of prosecution, but to recognize the critical importance of other institutions in enforcing rules of decent conduct — including civil courts, university tribunals and professional sports leagues.

I have no doubt that a wrong was done here. The question is whether it will be righted. That is not for the prosecutor to answer, but for the league and the team. The buck stops with them.

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After reading excerpts from the police reports - I truly believe that Ben "TAKE THE PUSSY" Rothlisberger raped that young woman. I also believe he belongs in jail and out of the NFL totally. If we can send Michael Vick to jail for abusing dogs then certainly what Rothlisberger did is far worse. I used to have a good opinion of him even though I wasn't a Steeler's fan. Now I think he is just a P-O-S. He belongs in jail where any other rapist would be. Payoffs just seem to cement the facts that he knew what he did was wrong. The Pennsylvania State Police need to investigate the officer that was his bodyguard and bring him up on charges also if the facts indicate the he aided and abetted the rape of that young woman. This just makes my skin crawl.

This man should be in jail. There are women who try to take rich people(Like the Seagal story), but this woman has back up witness. Multiple witness confirm the first thing out of her mouth was help me, I was raped. It was not hey, I just got lucky with a football player.
What should be the deciding factor is was the "ripped". A woman who has willing sex with someone, would not have her genitals ripped. A woman forced to have sex, will be ripped and bleeding.
This is one of the reasons it is so important to have a victim checked at the hospital.

The First woman said that all Ben had to do was donate to womens abuse and tell the truth about what he did. She was not just looking for money and look how people are doing her. It is hard enough for these women to come forward. They shouldn't having to be put through this by the media and bloggers. The second girl has dropped out of school. That poor innocent “southern bell”…. Ben has turned her life upside down and torn it apart. He reminds me of O.J. Simpson!!!
Comment: #1
Posted by: joethaplumber
Thu Apr 15, 2010 10:43 PM
OK, fine. But if this were some Hollywood knucklehead accused of this, he would spend about 15 minutes on oprah
and all would be forgiven.
Comment: #2
Posted by: DL
Fri Apr 16, 2010 7:18 AM
Celebrity athletes are usually allowed to get away with anything and everything!
Comment: #3
Posted by: karl anglin
Tue Apr 20, 2010 10:41 AM
This world is insane! We want people to behave within the law and within certain values of society. That's insane because the very foundation of our law and values was based on Judeo-Christian principles, the bible. The book that has been removed from nearly every facet of society, from hotel rooms to the class room.

What do you expect from a Godless society?
Comment: #4
Posted by: rinohunter
Tue Apr 20, 2010 11:19 AM
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