The revelation of controversial comments made by the longtime pastor of Sen. Barack Obama — and the equally hot aftermath from the general public that led to the junior senator from Illinois delivering a strong speech/sermon on race in America — has opened anew the explosive connection between three of the most volatile issues today.

If a poll were taken, there is no doubt that race, faith and politics would be the most emotional, passionate and divisive topics. Why? Because all three are so deeply personal. What one person sees as a negative, another would determine as a strength.

Republicans strongly believe that they are superior and right on the direction of the nation compared to Democrats. African-Americans are protective of their culture and ways of living, while whites routinely ask why we can't just be one nation with no labels. Catholics contend they are members of the one and only true church, while Baptists will say that being dipped in water after making a personal decision to give your life to Christ is the true way of salvation for the believer.

As a Christian, I've seen church members go toe-to-toe when discussing either of these issues, and I can remember some late-night debates in college that would have made the toes of Lincoln and Douglas curl.

So why did the comments of the Rev. Jeremiah Wright strike such a core, and how did it lead to Obama giving a speech on race? That was the question posed to me in a number of e-mails, and like Obama stated in his speech, it's really America's lack of understanding — no, refusal to accept — how the different races live and act.

The Kerner Commission stated in 1968 that we were living in two Americas — one black and one white. When we examine the TV shows we watch, those in the top 10 for whites are vastly different from those for blacks. Musical tastes vary; so do cultural norms. We all kid that during March Madness, the courts are loaded with mostly African-American ballplayers, yet when the College World Series happens in May, you will see mostly whites on the baseball diamond.

But we are also separate when it comes to worship. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said the most segregated hour of the week is 10 a.m. Sunday. And it still is. For Christians, we may celebrate the same Jesus, but how we do so and with whom is very different.

I fundamentally believe that whites, blacks — and yes, Hispanics and Asians — reacted differently when hearing the snippets of Wright's preaching. Not solely because of content but also style. For African-Americans who are accustomed to a certain style of preaching — and a lot of Southern whites — the thundering voice that drops to a whisper and the weaving of social issues with the theological are common.

Even former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee — while not embracing Wright — agreed with that point.

Yet our view of America is also different. Justified? No. Just different.

While many white Americans will look at Memorial Day or Veterans Day as an opportunity to celebrate our armed forces, African-Americans do the same, but African-Americans also will think historically of seeing and reading about black troops hanged from trees, still in their uniforms. They will think of soldiers returning home to America after World War II being forced to sit in the back of the train while German Nazis got to sit up front.

When Wright was castigated for being anti-American for saying "God damn America!" — which was not delivered in his speech about 9/11 — I couldn't help but think about that famous speech Dr.

King gave at Riverside Church April 4, 1967, when he blasted America's involvement in the Vietnam War. King was disowned by many of his supporters, was denounced as a traitor to the nation, and his speaking fees dried up.

See, even the man who many conservatives quote today with fervor was treated as an outcast in his own country.

Our shared experiences today may not be so raw and overt as America's racial past, but we can't forget how our past defines us today.

Are these excuses? Nope. Just a dose of reality.

I watched Joe Scarborough on MSNBC say, while qualifying that these weren't his views, that a blue-collar man in Youngstown, Ohio, didn't want to hear about race from a black man who went to Harvard and his black wife who went to Princeton.

He's probably right. But what Joe failed to mention is that same black man came from a home in which the mom had to go on welfare just to feed her family. That same black woman lived in a two-bedroom home and saw her parents bust their butts to make ends meet and scrape together every penny to send their children to the nation's finest schools.

Isn't that the dream of every white blue-collar parent and every black blue-collar parent? So why should such success be seen as anger toward someone else?

When we sit down, break bread together and truly listen and learn from one another, our worldviews change.

For the past few months, I've seen that experience up close and personal at my church in Chicago.

The Rev. James Meeks, founder and senior pastor of Salem Baptist Church — a predominantly black congregation — has been engaged in worship with a predominantly white mega-church, Willow Creek, led by its founder and senior pastor, Bill Hybels.

The pastors of the state's two largest churches have been engaged in the swapping of youth members and choirs, have preached at one another's church, and have made it their mission to break down the racial and economic walls that exist between Christians.

It has been rocky at times. To see the faces of African-Americans watch the worship service of Willow Creek members has been a bit jarring, from the style of preaching to the music. But there is a common denominator: Jesus.

There is no doubt that a lot of Americans are angry and confused by Obama staying at Trinity United Church of Christ and not disowning his pastor. Folks, that's just not what churchgoers do. I don't recall people asking members of Jerry Falwell's church or Pat Robertson's church to leave in droves. They knew their leaders were fallible and made mistakes. Should they be criticized for hateful and divisive comments? Absolutely. Disowned? I never would say that.

This is an opportunity we have. Those of us in the media, as Obama said, can continue to run the same clips, but is that providing healing to America? No.

What we can do is begin to show where communities are coming together, talking openly and honestly about their frustrations and pain. Will we get angry and upset because the other person isn't getting what we are trying to say fully? Of course! But until we decide to look in that mirror and confront our deep-seated fears of the other because of their race, religion and political affiliation, we'll remain a fractured nation.

The Bible says don't put new wine in old wineskins. So let's stop using the resentments of the past and holding them against the people of today and the future.

So, what are YOU prepared to do?

Roland S. Martin is an award-winning CNN contributor and the author of "Listening to the Spirit Within: 50 Perspectives on Faith." Please visit his Web site at www.RolandSMartin.com. To find out more about Roland S. Martin and read his past columns, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.

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