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Barack Obama and the Breakdown in Family

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Barack Obama, the Illinois freshman senator who hopes to occupy the Oval Office, strikes me as a man uncomfortable in his own skin. I say that having just finished reading Obama's first book, "Dreams from My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance," written before he decided to enter the political world and was therefore less careful about revealing his own doubts, fears and confusion.

The book, a combination of strikingly lyrical prose interspersed with mundane liberal platitudes, describes Obama's search for identity. That search takes him from a childhood in Hawaii, where he was raised mostly by his white, maternal grandparents; to the Southside of Chicago, where he tried to organize public housing residents; to Kenya, where his father was born and where his half-siblings, aunts, cousins and grandmother still live.

Throughout the book, Obama is obsessed with race. But it is not the usual preoccupation with racial discrimination, though he occasionally invokes this as well. Instead, Obama imbues race with almost magical qualities. Race defines character, culture, history, even personal fortune.

But with all his endless fixation on race, Obama never fully comes to grips with the single fact that is responsible for his own confusion about who he is. Obama was abandoned: first by his father, a Kenyan undergraduate who met and married Obama's mother while on a scholarship at the University of Hawaii, and then by his mother, who remarried after Obama's father left, divorced again, and sent Obama to live with his grandparents.

His father, whom Obama met only once as a 10-year-old, was married and the father of two by the time he met Obama's mother and married her. The circumstances of their marriage — whether he was even free to wed — are sketchy, as is their divorce. One thing is clear, however, Obama's father (also named Barack) was a troubled man.

After abandoning his new wife and son to attend graduate school at Harvard, the elder Barack met another woman — also white — whom he married, fathering two more children. Obama Sr. returned to Kenya, where his new wife insisted that he give up his African bride, though he frequently paid her visits and fathered at least one, possibly two more sons (the younger son's paternity remains in question because the first wife also had taken other lovers).

But this marriage didn't last either, so his father moved on to yet another woman, in a long chain of broken families that ended only with his death in a car accident when Barack was 21.

Obama tells us less about his mother, who was still alive at the time he wrote this book. She is missing through most of the book. Even when Obama describes his time in Indonesia when he lived briefly with his mother and her second husband, an Indonesian, the details are sketchy.

What does come across, indirectly, is Obama's sense of loss when his mother sends him back to Hawaii to live with her parents, while choosing to keep his younger half-sister with her. Obama describes his awkward reunion with his grandparents at Honolulu's airport: "suddenly, the conversation stopped. I realized that I was to live with strangers." This can't have been easy on a 10-year-old boy.

"Dreams from My Father" never directly grapples with the question of what these abandonments did to shape Obama. Instead, Obama chooses to portray himself as caught between two worlds: the white, middle class world of his mother's family and the African tribal system of his absent father. But Obama's African heritage explains almost nothing about who he is, and racism barely touches him growing up in multi-racial Hawaii.

Family history should neither be a qualification nor disqualification from becoming president. But Barack Obama's history cannot help but shape the person he is today, just as Bill Clinton's dysfunctional family shaped him.

If Sen. Obama spoke more about the troubled state of marriage and its consequences, if he acknowledged that the absence of fathers was the single most important factor in explaining persistent poverty among blacks, if he understood that the traditional family is becoming an endangered institution, perhaps he'd have something new to say to the American people.

Instead, he's chosen the safer political path. He talks about racial healing, ending partisan bickering and providing universal health care. But he ignores the single most pressing social issue of our day — and one on which he could speak with some authority: the breakdown in family.

Linda Chavez is president of Stop Union Political Abuse. To find out more about Linda Chavez, visit the Creators Syndicate web page at www.creators.com.

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Bad parenthood does not explain everything.
I hope that Miss Chavez believes in God, if not, what i say will be irrelevant to her.
Obama's father was indeed a wicked man (seducing women and engaging in adulterous unions); his mother was everything but mentally stable. Is he doomed for that matter? Should he spend his life ruminating on his childhood?
In the Bible, Joseph grew up in a bigamous family. Sure, it was no big deal at that time. But anyway... His half siblings hated him and eventually sold him as a slave. Such a damage upbringing did not prevent God from working through him. And he accomplished God's will because he didn't spend his time whingeing about his past, but rather focused on God's truth and character.
Abraham's parents worshipped false gods. But, upon encountering the One True God, he forsake idols and is now the father of those who believe.
Serious Christians should not believe psychological lies which profess that human beings are what their parents make of them (see http://www.christiandiscernment.com/, the parent factor or god factor pdf). One can obey God's commands even if one comes from a lineage of wicked persons. One can be a mature Christian thanks to both Christ sacrifice and to the support of the Holy Spirit.
And sins of the fathers do not cause sins of adult children. God is a God of individual responsibility.
It is also not Christian to lash out on others' shortcomings.
I'd also suggest reading : "nice people or new men" by C.S. Lewis. God does not only care that people turn away from sin and publicly expose their prefect non divorced Christian families (pharisees' pride). The wrecked son of adulterous black man and irresponsible white woman is a sheep as treasured as any other, for redemption is not mere improvement of families. It is bringing a New Reign. Read your Bible more carefully.
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Wed Nov 12, 2008 2:10 AM
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