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Life On The Straight Edge

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The Hartford Courant recently reported on a somewhat shocking teenage contrast. Picture a band of boys calling themselves "Society in Ruins" playing thrash-metal music so loudly it would make your ears bleed. But the teen rockers also have committed themselves to what's called the "Straight Edge" lifestyle of no drugs and no alcohol during high school. Courant writer Teresa Pelham reported the teenage rockers don't have a formal pact, "just an understanding that there will be no pressure, at least from each other, to drink or try drugs."

The term "Straight Edge" is inspired by the 1980s punk band Minor Threat, during a time when drug abuse marked punk-rock culture. "It's a very quiet, very personal movement in our school," explained Ed Manfredi, health and wellness director of the public schools in Farmington, Conn. "It's not like the kids who take abstinence pledges; who are usually very vocal about it. It's more of an attitude among friends."

This lifestyle is inspired by a program at Farmington High School called FOCUS (Focus on Communities Understanding Substance Abuse). The target is peer pressure, and a major part of that pressure is an assumption — often fostered by teens and even pessimistic parents and media outlets — that everyone's misbehaving. That perception, however, is wrong. An anonymous survey of 1,400 Farmington students in grades 8 to 12 found that "everyone" is not doing drugs or drinking alcohol.

Manfredi said 62 percent of ninth-graders surveyed said they never drink, but only seven percent of ninth-graders assumed abstinence on the part of their classmates. Thirty-three percent of 12th-graders drank once a week or more, but 77 percent of 12th-graders believed their classmates drink at that rate. He added: "Ultimately, unfortunately, perception catches up with reality. If kids think other kids are using, actual use will go up."

Pelham, the reporter on this story, remembered her own teenage years a few decades before in rural Connecticut, and wondered if her classmates also overestimated the drinking and drug use among their peers. She remembered the most notorious drinking binges of her peers, "but just as the media plays up the bad stuff, so does the teenage rumor mill."

FOCUS tries to discourage teen alcohol and drug use by having the oldest students speak to younger students about how a wild chemical lifestyle doesn't have to be part of the high school experience.

"Knowing that I'm not the only one that wants to have a drug-free life makes it easier," said one of the punk rockers, recently turned 16.

Stories like this come to mind when the topic turns to sex education. From the teenage rumor mill to pessimistic parents, experts and media outlets, the expectation is that everyone in high school is going to have sex. Why wouldn't it make sense to apply the same principle, seeking to reduce the level of peer pressure and insist that illicit sex doesn't have to be part of the high-school experience? Our health experts eagerly discourage teen drinking or drug use. Why do they seem to have a real problem with people who would discourage teenage sex?

The "comprehensive sex education" lobby is now hoping to defund the growing federal effort this decade toward abstinence education. They're putting out "new" studies of surveys taken in the 1990s to suggest sexual abstinence pledges are "useless." One researcher at Johns Hopkins University complained that promoting the pledges gives a "false sense of security, and energy could be better spent in education," he says. "It is time to stop spending money on these useless programs and funnel it into safer-sex counseling."

Instead of talking kids out of sex, the experts express the need to talk them into bed, or the back seat of a car. Sex therapist Laura Berman appeared on NBC to claim that what high-school students really need to learn is "how to negotiate for condom use" and "troubleshooting" when sexual situations inevitably occur.

But would experts like Berman really want to take that Theory of Inevitability and apply it to teenage drinking or drunk driving? Or drug use? Or smoking? Would she insist our children need filters on their marijuana cigarettes, or tools like "how to negotiate with pushers"?

Whether it's teenage sex or substance abuse, adults need to set a tone in schools that at the very least tells children that not "everybody" engages in risky immoral behavior, and not "everybody" should be expected to engage in it or be a social outcast. Children don't always greet that message with rolled eyes. They often greet it with relief.

L. Brent Bozell III is the president of the Media Research Center. To find out more about Brent Bozell III, and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at www.creators.com.

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Sir;.... I have to ask you why people like you have no curiosity... If you have it in your pocket, pull it out once in a while, and shake the lint off it... Why do kids and everyone else for that matter feel such a desire to escape reality???Why do kids and everyone else for that matter feel such a need for intimacy and love???Why do so many of us feel we have no life, no freedom, no happiness, and no joy if we can not bet it all on a single roll of loaded dice... The answer may be in the failed  philosophy of individualism which has worked us into failed communities, and failed families; but Capitalism is doing fine, I hope.... And how well would it be doing if people demanded their lives, and for a fair return on their lives??? People drop their babies and get back to work and wonder why their kids go looking for love as soon as they get feet under them... They spend fifteen years telling kids to grow up and wonder why kids do what adults do, -drive like maniacs, drink and take drugs, and have sex with anyone who says yes... There is only one thing wrong with rotten kids in my opinion... They all start out as decent human beings, and in order to make them strong enough to survive capitalism we have to turn them into perfect essholes... They know what lies ahead of them... They can tell the way misery is sweated out of us for a buck... We cannot conceal our pain, our lonliness, or our frustration, so they know, and they snatch at love, friendship, pleasure, joy, adventure, excitment; thinking that life ends when school ends, as it often does for the young, who find death or disease through mis-adventure... We ought to make life more user friendly.... We ought to raise our children with understanding and love... We ought to do our best to teach kids with love and support, and not make them into monsters as the price of their survival... Sir; you should know that kids are going to make mistakes...Hel, our whole society is a mistake, which is the best you can say of something that does not work and destroys people... Give them what they need to survive; knowledge, condoms; I don't care... The more you load up their minds with useless garbage the more harm you do to them... Thanks...Sweeney 
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Posted by: James A, Sweeney
Fri Jan 2, 2009 7:04 PM
The minute the hormones kick in and the biological urges begin, young people are going to start experimenting with sex. It's normal. It's natural. It's healthy. Give them the information they need to be sexually responsible. And the comparison to drug use is bogus. A better analogy would be to learning to drive a car. Will teenagers drive recklessly if they're taught to use their seat belts?
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Re: James A. Sweeney: So teenagers are having sex because of CAPITALISM? With you it's always capitalism this, and capitalism that. If you hate capitalism so much, move to Cuba and see how you like it.
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Posted by: Scot Penslar
Fri Jan 2, 2009 10:41 PM
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