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"CLASSIC" ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: Why don't YOU MYOB? A while back, you wrote a column on "Reconciliation Day" in which you urged your readers to "forgive and forget — let bygones be bygones." At 10:30 on the night that column appeared, we received a …Read more. "CLASSIC" ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: Please tell your readers not to dump their mothers, fathers or other loved ones into just any old nursing home and assume they will be well cared for. Urge them to select a home that has been looked into carefully, one where they …Read more. "CLASSIC" ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: I certainly can understand why some of the women who write to you need an unbiased party to help them avoid the land mines that show up in relationships AFTER they have become deeply involved. I was one of those women myself. My …Read more. "CLASSIC" ANN LANDERS Dear Ann Landers: You said in a recent column that young people must learn decent language at home. I believe outsiders also can be a big help. A few years ago, I went swimming with my 8-year-old granddaughter and her friends. Some teenagers nearby …Read more.
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Editor's Note: Hundreds of Ann Landers' loyal readers have requested that newspapers continue to publish her columns. These letters originally appeared in 1999.

Dear Readers: Several readers have written to say it was easier to get off cocaine than to give up cigarettes. I recently came across these tips written by Linda Greenhow, coordinator of the nicotine addiction program at the St. Helena Health Center in Deer Park, Calif. They may be helpful if you want to quit smoking. The information sounded good to me, and I would like to share it with you.

Staying Smoke-Free:

—Make the decision to quit.

—Set your quit date, and prepare yourself for the transition:

Become aware of your patterns of use, identifying trigger places, people and activities. Plan alternative responses.

Explore on paper your motivations for quitting. Carry a list of your top three reasons with you.

Start an exercise program to help manage stress, offset depression, combat urges and control weight.

Set up a social support system (a trusted individual who understands addiction, Nicotine Anonymous or an online support group).

Commit to "doing what it takes" to get through the short-term discomfort. Pharmaceutical support may be a consideration.

—Smoke your last cigarette, and say goodbye:

Dispose of all tobacco products and paraphernalia.

Drink lots of water to help eliminate nicotine from your system.

Take deep breaths to keep you centered.

Take action whenever an urge presents itself.

Call your support people. Pray. Take a walk. Stretch. The urge WILL pass.

Envision yourself already smoke-free.

—Modify your lifestyle to support your smoke-free status:

Change your daily routines to avoid old triggers.

Develop a schedule of rewards for yourself to offset any sense of deprivation. Avoid high-risk situations, such as use of mood-altering drugs, being with smokers, being alone with tobacco present or getting too hungry, angry, lonely, tired, anxious or bored.

Develop new interests to give your life a positive focus, and re-direct your energy.

Commit time and energy to activities that reinforce and reward your new, non-smoking lifestyle. It is one of the toughest battles of all, and you deserve a pat on the back.

Looking for an uplifting, quick read? "A Collection of My Favorite Gems of the Day" contains handpicked jokes and witticisms from the world over. Send a self-addressed, long, business-sized envelope and a check or money order for $5.25 (this includes postage and handling) to: Collection, c/o Ann Landers, c/o Creators Syndicate, 737 3rd Street, Hermosa Beach, CA 90254. To find out more about Ann Landers and read her past columns, visit the Creators Syndicate Web page at




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