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Venus has already had a Scorpio encounter this year, albeit a retrograde journey. This time, she's direct and intent on making our love lives more direct, honest and to the point. Scorpio energy is transformative. Changes will occur in the weeks to come. Don't be surprised if one truth is all it takes to drastically improve a relationship.

ARIES (March 21-April 19). You know what is keeping you from the success you want, and you are willing to take on this hurdle. There will be a fight. You'll win because you are willing to change.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20). As every hour passes, you grow more accepting of others and yourself. Your perception of "normal" is shifting to include new circumstances, habits and behaviors.

GEMINI (May 21-June 21). You will soon be giving an important gift. The thought you put into it now will make all the difference in how well this is received. Your creativity swells to meet the challenge.

CANCER (June 22-July 22). You feel so connected to a certain person that it is as though, without your knowing, your souls made a pact to intertwine. Even so, stay powerful and independent in this relationship.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). You have your own set of biases, and it's sometimes difficult for you to keep them to yourself. You'll be helping someone in an important way. The greatest help you could give will be judgment free.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). You can't totally control whether you succeed or fail. It's not all in your power. You have much more control over how often you try and how hard — and also at what point you quit.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). You are determined to make a difference. It doesn't mean you have to get your way completely. It will be satisfying to know that you've been a part of putting something great into the world.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). The deal may still go through. Win or lose, you have to keep trying. As you do your best, you'll bring people together, and new ideas are generated because of your intention and actions.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). You'll be in a position to influence others. Talk simply. Use words that a first grader could understand. Jargon and insiders' terms are a turn off to those who do not understand the meaning.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). You are mastering the art of communication these days.

You talk to people and listen to them. You recognize the huge difference between talking to people and talking at them, or worse, talking over them.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). If something is wrong, you fix it. This prevents future worry. Whether or not it's your job to fix it is irrelevant, as long as you're sure you won't be stepping on anyone's toes.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). People care about what's theirs. That's why even though you may get help on your projects, you can't expect that others will do the same kind of job you would do.

TODAY'S BIRTHDAY (Nov. 30). You will no longer need to look outside yourself for confidence and power. You recognize that it is already in you. You'll acquire an interesting treasure in December. January brings intellectual rewards, and your studies will lead you to interesting relationships. February brings a lifestyle upgrade. Taurus and Aquarius people adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 1, 22, 39, 17 and 50.

ASTROLOGICAL QUESTIONS: "I recently got a bad critique from my superior at work. Others have been criticized, as well, and the negative review does not seem to affect them the way it does me. I toss and turn at night. I don't want to go to work because I feel that everyone is looking at me and thinking about what my boss said. Maybe they aren't. People are probably too busy doing their own thing to obsess about my poor review. But it feels that way. I'm humiliated and ashamed, and since the review, I'm doing worse at work instead of better. Leos aren't supposed to be so sensitive. How can I overcome this?"

Every sign is sensitive in its own way. Leo has an ego just like every other sign. Your pride is hurt, and the experience was deeply wounding. But you have nothing to be ashamed of, and you need to snap out of it and let it go. Do not take this review personally. Your work isn't about who you are as a person; it's about how well your production matches up to what is needed by the company. Develop resilience. Successful workers bounce back — and that's just what you have to do.

CELEBRITY PROFILES: Fiery Sagittarius Kaley Cuoco puts the bang in "The Big Bang Theory," a television sitcom about socially inept physicists. Cuoco plays Penny Queen, the neighbor who helps the brainiacs with real-life problems outside the laboratory. Cuoco has her sun, Mercury, Saturn and Uranus all in adventurous, outgoing Sagittarius, though her Cancer moon suggests that she loves to be a homebody, too.

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"They're Grrrrreat!"
Comment: #1
Posted by: Tony The Tiger
Mon Nov 29, 2010 9:23 PM
I
know,shattered,weds,black,white,gray,grandma,grandpa,aunts,uncles,same,time,work,numbers,thirty-six,right,center,hut,hut ,hut.
Holiday should i travel in good faith,down to the field,i will anyways.
May the lord forgive me.....For i'm only me father in heaven....
Comment: #2
Posted by: no one special
Tue Nov 30, 2010 5:52 AM
Push,shove,protect,people,can,live,either,way,can,they.....don't,matter,lords,forgiveness,neither.
I,keep,distance,time,listened,waited,now,then,before,future,loyality,two, grey,white,then,black.
Comment: #3
Posted by: someone special
Tue Nov 30, 2010 6:14 AM
Frosty Flakes they are great.Anyways this is to the person that sold my heart,i went,swang,form the vines, beatting on my chest.I think i got it out.I should have made sure you got out by now, i know you been asking.All i know is i want to make up,i'm threw playing games,i will let you in my heart,you already have in anyways.Come over,i will come and get you,watch tv and maybe i will cook for you.I'm really putting myself out there.Will i touch you ,ya in a good way,like a back rup,sholders too,were that tension is that i cause.I'm i asking tou out,well if you count chilling together,yes i am.You ask me last night when i ask a question,why do i care,have i been to selfsh there,have i not been hearing you say you want to.I'm not sure if your playing or not,but i'm not.Get up and get ready,i will come and get you if its by noon.If not talk, to me play it off,and make sure you cheer me up.I have been playing with your heart,give it to me and i will die taking care of it.Look at the shit above this that's whats happing,i'm trying to catch the bulet for you like superman.
Comment: #4
Posted by: Kalob
Tue Nov 30, 2010 7:41 AM
What i don't want is you not to tell me anything.Scream at me,tell me no,tell me your going back out with him.I care but the turth sets you free..
Comment: #5
Posted by: Kalob
Tue Nov 30, 2010 8:02 AM
I have been to hell and back and learned a lot. I have learned many lessons buts' it is up to you to make your destiny happen,because no one else will make it happen for you. An opportunity might present itself to you,but you have to be wise enough to recognize it and take the first step to make it happen. I once thought I knew it all and would still like to believe that. I do but once you realize you don't know everything::: that is when wisdom begins. If one path in life doesn't work out, take it as an opportunity to find another. Adapt and overcome, only the strongest survive. I have fallen off the beaten path a few times but the road to success will always need some construction.
***Old friend**

Good afternoon,not for me but thats' life.Somebody really did hurt me,i never was hurt before,but this time i am.You wan't proof, i'm not crying like a baby,that's when i'm really hurt.
Comment: #6
Posted by: k
Tue Nov 30, 2010 10:15 AM
Only if you promise not to use your xray vision to see my panties like at the airport.
Comment: #7
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 10:43 AM
faster than a speeding bullet, that k, he beat me to the post again. we sure have a lot of timing problems, dont we? Im just sitting here waiting for the big S to catch the bullet. I hope he makes it.
Comment: #8
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 10:53 AM
God, did it reallt take me thirty minutes to come up with the panty line? I guess Im not quicksilver wit. I am freshly showered, though.
Comment: #9
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 10:57 AM
By the way, i dont even know who "he" is. i havent had so much as a date in over 4 years. At this rate, itll be another 4. Guess i,ll queue up "Fool in the Rain." Again. Sigh.
Comment: #10
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:36 AM
Im getting a big zit by my nose anyway .and a splitting headache. i could really have used that shoulder rub. Sigh.
Comment: #11
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:40 AM
Why does everything have to keep going wrong? I cant win for losing. Sigh.
Comment: #12
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:43 AM
Probably because I lied about the panties. Im not wearing any. instant karma, what?
Comment: #13
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:46 AM
Who wants to date a spotty pig who doesnt wear panties, anyway? Nobody, i guess, thats probably why i havent had a date in forever. That and Im always reading the news instead of my horoscope. A brainy, spotty, tacky little pig. Thats me.
Comment: #14
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:49 AM
I'm hurt and you wanna play games cute.I here you on the 4 year thing,i only got 2 more to catch up on that,some Zeppelin,for a change.If i knew who "he" was he praobly would be having a bad day.Thats for sure,this isn't funny to me,you wanna make fun of me cuz i want a warn body next to me,fine i don't give a shit what you think anyways.
Comment: #15
Posted by: k
Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:50 AM
I hear you on that.system loves this shit eating it up right,it not like i can be any more fuck,you know fuck.
Comment: #16
Posted by: k
Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:52 AM
Wow in one minute your done,Well i guess thats a relief since im fucking dieng with latter form this all,its not like im not going to get back up,plus Kalob the one trying to be superman not me,i'm trying to be the smart one,but you slander my name.
Comment: #17
Posted by: k
Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:58 AM
Well I was probably gonna get stood up anyway. Again. Sigh.
Comment: #18
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 12:03 PM
Making fun? Do you hear me laughing? Im too depressed to laugh. Nobody fucks up on purpose if they cant get a date. plus, you were the one who told me yesterday you were heading to stripperville. its a miracle i even read my horoscope today, all things considered. so dont blame me for showing up late.
Comment: #19
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 12:10 PM
Whatever, lex luthor, you werent gonna show anyway. Youre probably in cambodia or someplace laughing your ass off, so dont act all butt hurt with me. Same old song and dance. and not the aerosmith version, either, although I guess your familiar with that. probably getting all familiar with that right now. Oh was that bitchy? well yeah, but it couldnt happen to a nicer guy. and guess what? this is my final post cause youre a fucking shit head. Good luck, asshole.
Comment: #20
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 12:29 PM
Trix are for kids.
Coo Coo for Cocoa puffs.
Superman was destined for Lois.
So there.
Comment: #21
Posted by: j
Tue Nov 30, 2010 12:59 PM
Oh, i guess i lied. both about this being my last post, and about the good luck part. heres a song for you "I wish you'd die" Betty blowtorch. hope it didnt cost you too much to chase my tail for a couple of years. too bad you dont know how to treat a lady, cause it would have been a great investment, your loss. i do love you, well the old you, but you just keep fucking up. what a shame. Ill feel sorry for you later, im sure, cause im nice, but right now, im gonna put on some BB. Oh and check out im ugly and i dont know why. its hilarious, but of course you lost your sense of humor and thats why this didnt work out. oh, and because you turned into an abusive asshole. God knows I tried. At least I helped save the kiddos. That made this lousy ending worth it.
Comment: #22
Posted by: Lois Lane
Tue Nov 30, 2010 1:11 PM
If you think I'm abusive, you've never met me.
Comment: #23
Posted by: Daphne
Tue Nov 30, 2010 1:34 PM
"Fear in oneself,that the only fear,that oneself can have"
***Kalob***

"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you".
***Eric Hoffer***

"I do not fear computers. I fear the lack of them".
***Isaac Asimov***

"There are many who dare not kill themselves for fear of what the neighbors will say".
***Cyril Connolly***

Good verus Evil

When I was young the world was fair
And amiable and sunny.
A brightness was in all the air,
In all the waters, honey.
The jokes were fine and funny,
The statesmen honest in their views,
And in their lives, as well,
And when you heard a bit of news
'Twas true enough to tell.
Men were not ranting, shouting, reeking,
Nor women "generally speaking."

The Summer then was long indeed:
It lasted one whole season!
The sparkling Winter gave no heed
When ordered by Unreason
To bring the early peas on.
Now, where the dickens is the sense
In calling that a year
Which does no more than just commence
Before the end is near?
When I was young the year extended
From month to month until it ended.

I know not why the world has changed
To something dark and dreary,
And everything is now arranged
To make a fellow weary.
The Weather Man -- I fear he
Has much to do with it, for, sure,
The air is not the same:
It chokes you when it is impure,
When pure it makes you lame.
With windows closed you are asthmatic;
Open, neuralgic or sciatic.
***Ambrose Bierce*** The Devil's Dictionary
Comment: #24
Posted by: Kalob
Tue Nov 30, 2010 3:51 PM
I wanna come and get you early in the morning,yes,i do, i'm not playing youm you have to pick up in the morningm i hope tonight so we can run threw the game plan ,so i'm not lex tommorow,timing off yes,can fix ,yes,love you,yes,have our own lifes yes.
Comment: #25
Posted by: Kalob
Tue Nov 30, 2010 4:07 PM
F it tomorrow when you wait up,for one read your horoscope,so maybe you don't go threw this again,hope that i didn't want to be lex today because they will make it worse. No i don't want you to be sorry,but to smile and laugh this day has been abusive .Yes you have been very verbally abusive today and in the past,i forgive you,cause i'm in love. Blow it out my ass,i been trying but, it keeps on filling back up ,tomorrow jam is going to jam, and hit the spot. Back to rock ,and your kill me song rock,it really put a smile on my face,so don't even worry about it. Heres a jam that you can make your on spit to,it is every cool.

LlVD-mmkypU

Comment: #26
Posted by: Kalob
Tue Nov 30, 2010 4:47 PM
Ok so i didn't think about standing you up,i was selfish again.
If you push,somebody's gets shoved.
When you get shoved,you push back.
An eye for a eye.
Hurt and be hurt
I'm trying to make it up to you,but your no different than me,you want to get me back. The timing is off,i guess i will back off,and let you see that i was pissed like you with that die song. I even waited hours before i said anything to let you cool down.
Daphne here's a song for you, i will be your MJ next year,we will dress like the thriller video and we learn the dance. It will take at least a month,but the kids will love it think about it.

Zi_XLOBDo_Y

I didn't think about it as standing you up why didn't you say asshole come get me.......I apologize,for real not because you want answer me,but because i feel your pain.
You have the power to change the way shit is headed with us now,i really just want to talk you know,not to attack you,you have my word,you know till i get upset.Your the one that lost control today,and i laughed,sorry.
Comment: #27
Posted by: k
Tue Nov 30, 2010 6:59 PM
Ok we can't hate each other forever,we have tired,i don't know how to back off, its a problem i have always had when shit is messed up.
Comment: #28
Posted by: k
Tue Nov 30, 2010 7:12 PM
FOyHPzKh9GA

:( sorry ):
:( forgive me ):
:( please ):
I will be the old me just for you and only you,you have my word but don't do the song.
I'm trying to wait on you,you know i want go to stripperville,unless with me.
Comment: #29
Posted by: j
Tue Nov 30, 2010 8:07 PM
Some body help us this is what i want. I started working on our plan again tonight. I started a thing,that would set back others ,form running me over in the next month. The greed kills,not people,people kill,not the guns. I'm just saying,i want to be left alone another month,i agree that i should have taken the help. I think i would have been alright,but its to late,its in already. I could have everything i wanted and this fight would have not happened. Me and her would be together,if i would have taken the help,the thing is that she thought me how to not take it. I cant work with out what i'm missing and know its not the girl. If i had what i am missing, i would have the girl or something like it. That's been the whole problem anyways, the end of the street would not have happened. I would have been the asshole that kick her out, at her house and said fuck off. If your reading this don't you see how i use to act up to i lost my mind and that at the same time. I have tired to let her go,but i don't think that's the answer,we always end back up around each other. I didn't have to get around her again when she came back form fishing with that guy.Hell i was around other girls all day long at that time. In matter of fact how the hell do i keep on ending up back around her. I swear the shit is crazy,i had my mind on someone else and she calls needing help,and that's it forget about that one. Does anybody really know why this happens.
I do have my future at the top of the list after my problem gets fix. I see no reason to make the meetings. Go to the a, we will all be better off if i that the next three weeks off. I am not trying to let greed or what i want to get take over my plan. Plus its a long plan,built on good sound foundation. It will not fall threw to shit,is that not what people want a good foundation.
I don't care how my people are treated i do need help but they are my people. I am coming a abusive asshole,i think i need help with that,i lost a lot of people with this attitude before i might have lost one today. I believe everything happens for a reason. You do know the night you where running around with the first phone problem,that's the same night that caused the problem i'm trying to fix,i use to think you did it. You know she was with me when i tried to fix it. It was cute,fuck what have i done,i know i'm just scared and f ing with her. I don't understand why i push and hate things i love. Can anyone school me on that. yes i know i got a shitty review this year,but shit happens. Anyways i love you all, and you got to understand that you can't see everything i do.I was told not to let yawl in the first place. If you think you can take what i am doing and do it,well do it.I will be more than happy to watch,learn,and make up a another plan to gain that. Must of the people that i am around on the daily base is don't even turely know me.So with that said call my bluff if you want to try.I love all yawl p i miss you where are you.Sorry for the long drawn out love story gone to hell shit.I don't have my head up there no more,put its still messed up form the last couple of years.I have been in the hostipal over four times,thanks for helping care again,i don't know why you did it.But i'm glad you did that for f ing sure.I hope you see that threw all the other crap going on.Its like a soap opera in here know days.Good for the rating wright,i'm just trying to let you see tha possitive side,since i know i let you down,try to start a war,and let you down again,turn my back on you,then told you kiss my ass.I hope you turely know i was upset with life and was taking it out on every one but the little one.
Comment: #30
Posted by: Cody
Tue Nov 30, 2010 8:50 PM
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