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There is a big difference between being direct and being blunt. Yesterday, the lunar influence may have tempted you to state more than was necessary. If you did, you can rectify the resulting hurt feelings under today's affable astral conditions. Humble yourself enough to see the humor in your folly, and others will laugh it off, too — no harm, no foul.

ARIES (March 21-April 19). You emulate a well-respected leader. You strive to acquire this one's stellar listening skills and ability to reply honestly to others in a way that makes them feel satisfied and maybe even important.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20). If you want to keep a secret, don't tell it to a known blabbermouth. Right about now, you have something to publicize. You can be sure everyone will hear it if you call it a "secret" and tell it to said blabbermouth.

GEMINI (May 21-June 21). There's something you would love to do if you only had the money. Pretend you do have the money, and keep dreaming about this. It is possible. You just have to believe.

CANCER (June 22-July 22). When you're not getting through to someone, the usual reaction is to raise the volume. Try another approach today. Back off. Walk away. You'll be most effective in making your point.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). Remember, you're going after a certain goal. Don't stubbornly stick to your path to such a degree that you won't get off of it when you see that there's a better, quicker way to get to your goal.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). You'll receive valuable input from others, though it comes in a rough form. If only people could communicate more directly and give you only what you need. Since they can't, you'll have to sort through the muck to find the gems.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). Humility is the best antidote to the kinds of problems you encounter today. When you consider a situation without pride or prejudice, you see a smart, quick way to get what you want.

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). What you do out of the goodness of your heart is so rewarding to you that you wouldn't even want any other kind of reward for it. That would only cheapen the moment.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). There's something you know would enrich your life. Perhaps it's reading a book, volunteering a service or having children. Do not put this off until you have the time. You may never have the time. Do it now.

CAPRICORN (Dec.

22-Jan. 19). You can do something truly spectacular with an upcoming presentation or event. This happens only through a lot of unglamorous labor. The time you spend in preparation will make all the difference.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). You will get input you were not expecting, and this may catch you off guard. You'll handle your surprise with grace and will be able to make the most of the opinions you gather.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). As ridiculous as some people may seem about keeping silly little personal policies and rules, you have to recognize that a boundary is a boundary. Cross at your peril.

TODAY'S BIRTHDAY (Dec. 4). You have luck in attracting sponsors and teachers. Tell everyone what you want to do. Family bonds together to make something wonderful happen in December. January brings romantic professions. In February, a mentor or coach will inspire you and keep you on track. Upgrade your education, skills or style in May. Gemini and Libra people adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 5, 2, 11, 29 and 19.

ASTROLOGICAL QUESTIONS: "Something must be going on with my stars, because more opportunities are showing up for me than ever before. I am a Scorpio and just turned 23. I want to fall in love, but I do not want to get married. It seems like everyone is interested in getting serious too quickly. Would I be better off with a Virgo, Sagittarius or Pisces man?"

You've figured out that the way to drive your pursuers wild is to tell them that you don't want to get serious. It's only human nature to want what you cannot have. And since love planet Venus recently slipped into your sun sign, your suitors are also responding to the special aura of confidence that surrounds you during this transit. Each sign you mentioned has its plusses. Virgo will be nurturing and will care for you in tangible ways. He will make your life easier and much improved by helping you handle the day-to-day challenges. Sagittarius will inspire your dreams, and will be spontaneous fun. Pisces will endeavor to understand you and enter into your spirit. Inside his love is a whole new world that seems to exist solely for the two of you.

CELEBRITY PROFILES: With her red hair and sizzling magnetism, Oscar winner Julianne Moore embodies the Sagittarian spirit. Moore also has strong Scorpio and Capricorn energy running through her natal chart. The Scorpio side lends honesty and curiosity as to the inner workings of things and psychic tendencies. Capricorn lends a fierce work ethic and a very practical manner of solving life's challenges.

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UNSOLVED MYSTERY is so flat and simply . The answer is simple and known . I know . I know . I know . The SECRET is that EVERYBODY KNOWS But you dont know about it . Now you know . Have nice day everybody !
Comment: #1
Posted by: vbnjhgf
Fri Dec 3, 2010 10:09 PM
i COULD CAGE HER, HER LIFE DESERVES TO BE THERE,I CAN ONLY TRY SO HARD TO SEE THE GOOD.lIKE MOM TAM TOLD ME LAST NIGHT JUST FORGET.HER FAGOT ASS HUSBEND GAY.BUT KNOW I CAN CALL HER,SHE DID SAVE ME,I NEVER EVER BEEN WITH SOMEONE MY AGE,I THINK TWICE MY AGE AND AS FINE AS HER,MAN WHAT SHE WILL SHOW ME NEXT WEEK.LET HER SEE THIS,I HAVE TRIED SO LONG, LET HER PUT A NEEDLE IIN HER ARM, FUCK HER.I WANT HER GONE I WILL GET OVER IT QUICKER I KNOW I WILL.tA tA IT IS WHAT IT IS...............
Comment: #2
Posted by: k
Fri Dec 3, 2010 10:14 PM
WHAT A PUSSY I KNOW I KNOW YOUR FUCKING CAGED......
Comment: #3
Posted by: k
Fri Dec 3, 2010 10:16 PM
ANSWER THE PHINE HOE,ITS NOT THAT HARD TO SMILE AND PLAY EACH OTHER IS IT............PLEASE
Comment: #4
Posted by: J
Fri Dec 3, 2010 10:21 PM
I just need some loving in the bed ok,its been a while,and i want it more form the girl im in love with.sorry i have been a asshole but that pussy a way form any guy and see whet happens
Comment: #5
Posted by: k
Fri Dec 3, 2010 11:32 PM
i don't care i will cross that line
Comment: #6
Posted by: k
Fri Dec 3, 2010 11:34 PM
Yes there are people that tell everything they hear. One never tells secrets to even family because they aren't secrets anymore. We have many people here that love gossip. Sad the gossip they tell is rather trashy on each other. I try to never let one person know about the other and I like them all but can't be real friends with any. Am trying to visit somewhere interesting each week.We are anxious to visit the wine country next month. We missed you this weekend. Hope you are well. We went into the city for Thanksgiving. Anywhere we go is fun for Tanner, a two year old. Xmas is all set here. Will you travel for the holiday or is your family in this State? Thanks for your good work. People missed you when you were gone.
Comment: #7
Posted by: yvonne streety
Fri Dec 3, 2010 11:47 PM
i LOVE MY GIRL I WAS TALKING TRASH,THAT ALL IT IS TRAS.None of it is true i was drunk.
Comment: #8
Posted by: k
Sat Dec 4, 2010 4:37 AM
This is some body being drunk,and talking shit,thats all it is is bullshit.I would die if she went anywheres.I would say it was a good night besides this.I really don't want her to see this.
Comment: #9
Posted by: k
Sat Dec 4, 2010 4:47 AM
Girl i really want you to forgive me(god forgives, i do to) here at least,i knew better then to go drink. I was begging to know you where ok all day. You know i worry about you,i shouldn't because your grown up.I had a chance to go home with some swingers i guess. Then i didn't which left me in the state of being drunk, mad at you,and well you know. I didn't even have my contacts in when i was typing i see i was talking allot of shit,hanging you form a tree,to caging you up like a animal,to the lethal injection. The sad point of it is i have a messed up mind,i would rather you be laying next to me. You know dam well that's all i want,and how happy it would make me. I have done my best here,i'm sorry that it got that out of control,and i hope your mad, not hurt. We need to get together soon,no matter what,so your going to have to suck it up. I am to,don't try to get me back,you really can't anyways,you have no dirt on me anymore. I just want your love that's it,and i don't know how to get it. If you want to tell me how,maybe i then could pull it off.

There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness.
Josh Billings (1818 - 1885)

This is so true when you forgive someone it hurts them more,and heals you.
Comment: #10
Posted by: Kalob
Sat Dec 4, 2010 5:40 AM
Girl i really want you to forgive me(god forgives, i do to) here at least,i knew better then to go drink. I was begging to know you where ok all day. You know i worry about you,i shouldn't because your grown up.I had a chance to go home with some swingers i guess. Then i didn't which left me in the state of being drunk, mad at you,and well you know. I didn't even have my contacts in when i was typing i see i was talking allot of shit,hanging you form a tree,to caging you up like a animal,to the lethal injection. The sad point of it is i have a messed up mind,i would rather you be laying next to me. You know dam well that's all i want,and how happy it would make me. I have done my best here,i'm sorry that it got that out of control,and i hope your mad, not hurt. We need to get together soon,no matter what,so your going to have to suck it up. I am to,don't try to get me back,you really can't anyways,you have no dirt on me anymore. I just want your love that's it,and i don't know how to get it. If you want to tell me how,maybe i then could pull it off.

There is no revenge so complete as forgiveness.
Josh Billings (1818 - 1885)

This is so true when you forgive someone it hurts them more,and heals you.
Comment: #11
Posted by: Kalob
Sat Dec 4, 2010 5:40 AM
That is so sweet holiday,i would say i'm not doing a great job,I wish you where a around the delete button. I have messed up,i promise i will not be drinking till at least next weekend. I knew this cure for not drinking,but its not a around no more,if you think about it,you will understand that you see that now. I'm not supposed to love people like that is all i can think,because i know is how to spoil a person. Just yesterday i was asking a old friend about my first daughters mother. I said i treated her good,what happen dude. He said what do you mean "you spoiled her". I did you real 300 in flowers a week,gold everything she wanted. Hell one time i remember she said no more flowers,so i hung stuff bears and animals form the ceiling balloons cards,i spent hundreds of dollars a day making her smile. I really don't remember what happen, i do but don't like thinking about it. Maybe one day i will tell you that story, it will make your heart drop,it did kill me and my mom.Why do i keep on messing up,and then her ,then me,and on and on.
Comment: #12
Posted by: Kalob
Sat Dec 4, 2010 5:56 AM
good morning. I made the decision to avoid reading my horoscope yesterday and today because I wanted to make my own decision from my own center and my own heart and not be influenced by outside factors. Im glad I did that because I knew my conflicts would only intensify. I had to go within to ask myself and answer what I value more, my pride or my sense of innate goodness, friendship and long term impacts beyond my own hurt feelings, which pass. I decided my own opinion of myself would be damaged if I let others down in their time of need, regardless of how i was treated, or believed i was being treated. I didnt know if I could stand another humiliation if one was forthcoming. I decided that my choice was simple because I can only choose my actions and not yours. I am proud of being the good friend that I am capable of being. i am proud to serve others even when they dont understand my actions or take me for a fool or think i have ulterior motives. I am proud that i am able to still act out of innocence in such a world as we live in. For me that is the ultimate test, to stand and be true in the face of all that confounds me. That said, I act on your behalf as well because I do see what a trial you yourself are having. I do hurt when you hurt even though that is inconvenient for me. I cant choose my feelings but I can honor them. I dont want you to be hurting, or to feel lonely, or in turmoil, on my account, ever if i can help it. I know I have been spotty lately but I have been struggling with my pride and my own self esteem issues. I hope you can take my affection and help in the spirit it is offerred. i know how hard it is for you to get close to people and to trust them and I damaged that a number of times becuase I lost my temper. Im sorry for that. I guess forgiveness goes both ways and I have done my own share of hurting, which I regret. I had hoped I would be excellent and loving and perfect all the time, but that of course is folly, and I have fallen short of the mark any number of times. Actually, I probably should lighten up on that a little, cause its annoying, both to me and other people. I guess its true that the measure of the man is not if he falls, but if he gets back up again and if he can have a good laugh at himself. Its aggod thing too cause i eat dirt pretty regularly! Anyway, i am proud of you, again and still. I hope you know that and I hope you feel it. Have a good day and give yourself a hug from me, okay? And thanks for hugs and kisses and nice stuff today. As far as the drunk stuff goes, no biggie, dont sweat it, I was ducking!
Comment: #13
Posted by: p
Sat Dec 4, 2010 7:01 AM
And on alighter note, heres a funny song that I love, "Sorry" by Nerf Herder. Hope it makes you smile.
Comment: #14
Posted by: p
Sat Dec 4, 2010 7:13 AM
Oh and heres another funny one from the same band. Ive Got a Boner for Xmas. should be on everyones play list IMO> Smile!
Comment: #15
Posted by: p
Sat Dec 4, 2010 7:16 AM
I hurt myself again. I'm starting to think about suicide again,i don't know how it toke this turn. I think i would be doing everybody a favor if i jump off the side off something and land in 5 inches of water on some concert slabs. Yes it does seem that i have spot pick out. I give up and the only way for me to do that is to die. I do not enjoy the drunk feeling no more,people don't want to believe that,i can came so fare this year,i was just pulling it back together to be smashed again,i'm not laughing,i'm crying for what i have done to the person i'm in love with and can't have. One time i thought i could have,for about an hour i thought i was fuck up,because i was going to walk away. I told her i would never break her heart,this is probably the only time i have prayed,i went to the church and ask god to forgive me and make sure her heart was not broke. I was lying to myself because i feel in love more,the day after,it seems god did answer me for her heart to not be broke i know she has one,plus i want to get back to work to. I am ready to make the call,i thought you would call my bothers phone last night,'mi not here to let you or her down,even if it keeps happing, i don't want it to. There's one good thing is i don't want to get fucked up no more at all, i don't know or think you feel this way. I was telling my bother last night,that it was better not to get drunk etc. That he could have the things he needs. Me to i was talking to my father yesterday and he was asking,i messed up and trying to fix a lot of things,the things that i care a lot about are the one i'm falling at. I don't know how to act with the things i care for,i just want to throw money at them. That has not been the answer in the past nor do i have the money like i did in the past. Them are problem to, i love the boner song ,it does have a lot of my problems and answers in it and the sorry song to. I'm asking for your two cents again, what to i do about the person i love,i told them this morning, another way that i think maybe they would be better off with someone else as, long if there were not getting fuck up and meant it. I don't want that,i have not talk to her in over a day,she has became my life,love and soul. I can't seem to keep it under control and show her. She is difficult to me and i think that's just her,i have not hung out with her, in its going on months. I still think about her more then ever, first and last thing i think about daily. The more time that's goes bye makes it worse,its not that i can't have it. I turely love her,i have tired to lie to myself and it does more harm then good. This is a song that i been waiting to use i guess this is the time. It has lots of points in it. I do have a house to take out the old unit and put a new one in next weekend an a to z job. It will be get pay,If the congress don't rap me i will be ahead of my due date a day or two. I want to be spoiled like you said,i don't know if i will have anyone to spoil, i wish she just talk to me,even ifs it to be told no again,i guess it would help me out. So fri, sat and sun i want be in town of next weekend,i will be mad and sad, i truly hate this work,but i got to do it. I guess i should be thankful for it,i wish i could pray,can someone pray for me. This is not going to be the xmas i hope for.

Knm7r-lmQhc

This song is how i feel preety much down to every word,i don't need people telling me to jump.That's for sure and a given.:(((((((((((((((((((((((((((
Comment: #16
Posted by: k
Sat Dec 4, 2010 9:24 AM
I'm dieng inside, it eating me alieve, i just want to stop.I am ot saying this to get what i want it is the turth.
Comment: #17
Posted by: k
Sat Dec 4, 2010 9:31 AM
If even can help with the song and how i feel,i would not turn my back,i need help.I am still standing but i am bulking in the knees,i am sick,throwing up thinking she is with some body else,i didn't go looking for this fealiing,dad i'm hurting way more then some body should hurt.I would not wish this feeling on my worst emeny,i am not alright,i know i lost her forsure.
Comment: #18
Posted by: k
Sat Dec 4, 2010 9:52 AM
Dude if i have hurt you i'm sorry it just i was protecting my feeling, have i not told you my bad."MY BAD" truly know i have no intentions of there being a another humiliation on your part nor mine. I talk to the girl so i'm fine i need something to do to keep me away form her,till at least she cools down. I don't think she wants the amount of love i have to give to her. Some days maybe i hear what i want and she says what she wants. She said that she hates me but not forever so that's good. Me and you and the other one,are not getting the message across,is there one to see but i'm not seeing it. Are you waiting for me to make the call on that one.( maybe i'm having faith issues' but you are to blame for that) Ok i'm not weak cuz of love no more,i can stand a "your freaking me out and i'm pissed at you and don't buy me shit for xmas but i will cry if you don't" well i added some words but it the truth. What the fuck is up big dawg. If i go another way you will think i am moving against you,like i would do that. Times are boring with my home work almost completed i don't know what to do. Maybe i do but over the last month of hell coming down a lot of us(me) have lost the point of life. To put it some way,i don't like sitting around no more i got out last night with my bother talk with people,i have some questions on that for you,but not know them are going to be face to face. Just to see that face when i ask you ,what you done and thank god i don't have to. I really going to stop drinking in public,plus i don't understand why i attack her,i think it has do do with the resilience thing, I need to read more into that. I'm more than ready to get shit started i thought i had the ok. I'm clueless wright now i guess because i have been worrying about her. I really don't think that's wrong, because i countie do what i can for now,but want the now part to be well think you know . Did you think i was going to turn my back on you and run. for miles. Plus do you know what the deal is with them,thinking i would do that. I don't deserve to be spoiled but you said you would,i want my xmas now please. What is the hold up,have you seen me lately,i had women and men telling i look great last night and trying to get me to go home with them or are you missing that. Yes i will stop talking so much if i can get the message threw. Is there a reason you seem to be scared of something,is it still me,or me messing up again. I do have 100% faith in myself again on that level,i don't even give in to her wants there no more and yes i still could. I am no longer mad at you at all,i probably want forget the phone issue for a while,but i can't go on holding it against you. Please respond i think i put every thing that needs to be seen to everyone in the last month,with i'm still standing and strong at the end. Every body is tired of being off,i need you,there i said it again. Time is money get off your ass if you want to get shit done you KNOW,plus i don't want to drive you crazy no more. I hope you can say the same unless me being turned off is at the top of your list of thing to do to me. I love people because they deserve to be loved and i believe in peace,and playing mind games.

7MvKr5ylq9I

Its just a jam you know not no real meaning but life is life.I do like the line if you see me fighting a bear, go help the bear.
Comment: #19
Posted by: Cody
Sat Dec 4, 2010 11:37 AM
I am seeting answers, to the bigger story. I have gotten lost on the way, i'm turely confused. I know i have a promise and people are looking at me. I guess i'm starting to wonder why, are you letting me go, are you firing me.What do i have to say to get you to respond. Do i need to wright or make a bad story happen again, that you want care for. Wait i just answered all my questions you are ready, i guess i asking you like a foggot.Like i do with girls can i kiss you, i still do that shit. It don't work as aw your cute. It just don't work i am keeping my personal life to myself, it has to be out your reach by know. I don't know what to do but let it go for a while i need something to keep me busy,and have a little fun.That girl turely wants me to be sad, do i deserve it,i couldn't see what i was typeing.
Comment: #20
Posted by: Karri
Sat Dec 4, 2010 1:13 PM
Dal doesn't like keeping secrets (or telling everything).
Comment: #21
Posted by: Daphne
Sat Dec 4, 2010 4:01 PM
He keeps the secrets he has to. It doesn't matter your going to work your hardest to get past the problem you have to. Your the one to talk,lets go back to october every time he said something you didn't care for,right here and said it. Why he look and you didn't even know, if he don't tell everything there must be a lot of secrets he keeps, i'm sorry you like girls the problems yawl have are really easy to solve. Its not like you have not tried to solve them or he has not tired neither. Its the timing, he wants to work on it but you don't so i mean, it doesn't seem like yawl are getting no where. Where are you, he doesn't know if your back and if he is dissing you again, it would because he don't realize your back, sweetie. He misses you , did you see what happens when you leave his side, bad news, do you want him to fail and die. You know he will have to pay for today, so why don't you just ask for something nice for yourself and smile more for him. You do remember that he change your mind about him, and well i keep that to myself. He has major problems about worrying about people and trust issues' guess you didn't read that up top, maybe he hides a lot more then you think and just says the shit he thinks you will listen to. Just some advise, yawl would be a lot alike and be able to work great together, if you two would try at the same time.
Comment: #22
Posted by: Dal
Sat Dec 4, 2010 5:29 PM
Today has been a day of closure for us all maybe if we keep the chatter among are selves we want have to look at are horoscopes and see each other thoughts,I have indeed not been listening to them. It is the not wotrh what it will cuz us, I will take full responsibility to the one i have problems with,it just something i haven't said, but is known among us. I have been told and listened, i can only hope my people listen to me, if not i don't want it to be on me if you understand.
Comment: #23
Posted by: THE SPECIAL ONE
Sat Dec 4, 2010 8:17 PM
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