"If you've seen one star, you've seen 'em all." How many times have I heard that phrase over my long stargazing career!

I suppose it's true to one who seldom peers at the nighttime sky. It's really too bad, though, because those of us who spend more time looking up than down know there are few statements further from the truth.

It may also be tough for some to imagine that one could actually have a "favorite" star. But I do, and I'd be willing to bet that most experienced stargazers do as well. The reason, you see, is that stars — like people — have their own personalities. Once we get to know them as individuals, they take on many charms and quirks that are unique to them. The trouble is that most of us don't ever make the effort to get to know the stars. And that's a cosmic shame.

My favorite star, you ask? Antares, the brightest in the constellation Scorpius, the scorpion, which appears low in the southeastern sky during late evening this week.

With all the stars in the heavens from which to choose, why would I choose this particular one? I think of Antares as my favorite because I remember watching it intently as a child.

Antares was a star visible in the summertime sky, when school was out and the weather was warm. Quite often during my childhood, there was the smell of freshly mown lawns in the air, and folks were out around the neighborhood. Lying back on the cool grass of my backyard, I gazed wide-eyed as Antares rose above the Coursins' house, and shone its ruddy glow through the sultry haze of summertime.

What warm and comforting memories these are from such a magical time of discovery. Even today, wherever I find myself on this huge planet as Antares appears in the sky after dark, I get a huge smile on my face as I joyfully greet my closest celestial childhood friend and reminisce about the wonderful times we've spent together.

Today, of course, I recognize Antares as a red supergiant that is nearing the end of its stellar life. The star is so huge that if brought to our solar system and placed where the Sun is, the star's atmosphere would engulf the orbits of Mercury, Venus, Earth, and probably even Mars. And it's so distant that the light we see tonight has been traveling through space for more than half a millennium.

In other words, if there were a race of stargazers on a planet orbiting this aging and dying star — something that is quite unlikely, by the way — and they had a telescope capable of monitoring activity on Earth, they would right now be watching the early decades of the Italian Renaissance...in real time. Now how cool is that!

To me it's all these marvelous bits of information that make a star like Antares even more "personable." So the next time you're out gazing at the glistening stars and feel a tendency to dismiss them as being "all alike," take some time to get to know them as individuals.

After all, stars are people too!

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