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What's Worse: Alcohol or Marijuana Use?
DR. WALLACE: The guy I date is a "pothead." He smokes a lot of marijuana. Sometimes he even smokes marijuana while he is driving. He says that he is in complete control at all times, even when and after he has smoked pot. He says that …Read more.
I'm Afraid to Tell My Parents He's 20
DR. WALLACE: I'm 17 and recently met the sweetest most wonderful guy in the world at a friend's wedding reception. So far, all we have done is have lunch together twice on a Saturday afternoon. I'd really like to see this fellow on a regular basis (…Read more.
Why Take Geometry? I'll Never Use it
DR. WALLACE: I'm 17 and will be graduating from high school in June. I've enjoyed my school year. I've made many friends and have enjoyed learning with most of my teachers. My only complaint is that schools teach things that most students will never …Read more.
Yearly, 7,000 Lives Are Saved
DR. WALLACE: I'd like to know why we have a stupid law in the United States that requires a person to reach age 21 before legally consuming a drop of alcohol. I am a college freshman at Miami University in Florida and if I have a glass of wine at …Read more.
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Our Sons Are Sensible Social DrinkersDR. WALLACE: Recently, the parents of a 17-year-old son were teaching him how to drink alcohol sensibly at home, so he wouldn't learn how to drink outside the home with his friends. You blew a gasket saying that they were doing their son a huge disfavor. Sir, may I tell you that you were 100 percent incorrect. If all parents would teach their teens to drink sensibly and to become responsible social drinkers, we would have fewer adult problem drinkers, which would mean fewer alcohol-related accidents, fewer alcoholics, fewer alcohol-related family problems and fewer alcohol-related crimes. When teens don't learn how to drink sensibly with parental guidance, they learn from their peers and that can be troublesome. We have a set of fraternal twin sons. One is a high school teacher and coach and the other works for an insurance company. My wife and I introduced them to alcohol on their 16th birthday in our home. We started them on wine during supper once a week. On their 17th birthday, we introduced them to beer. They could have one beer every Saturday after doing their chores. On their 19th birthday, they were introduced to hard liquor mixed with a non-alcoholic liquid. They both seemed to enjoy a screwdriver — orange juice blended with a shot of vodka. Again, one was the limit and only on a Sunday, at home. At no time did my wife and I worry about our sons drinking foolishly when we were away from home. Both boys are college graduates, good citizens and sensible social drinkers. Isn't that what all parents want for their children? — Father, Cedar Lake, Ind. FATHER: I strongly disagree with parents introducing alcohol to their children.
SHOULD I WAIT TO LEARN ABOUT THE BIRDS AND BEES? DR. WALLACE: I'm 13, and I want many answers to my questions about "the birds and the bees" (sex). I know that some mothers find it hard to discuss sexual matters with their daughters. I'm not sure how my mother stands on this issue. Should I wait a little longer to see if she approaches me on this subject, or should I approach her first? - Nameless, Elizabethtown, Ky. NAMELESS: Approach Mom and tell her that you have some questions regarding sex and that you decided that she was the best person to ask. Chances are good that she will cooperate. If she stalls, ask her to recommend someone else to answer your questions regarding sex. This should stimulate her to listen to your questions and give honest answers. Dr. Robert Wallace welcomes questions from readers. Although he is unable to reply to all of them individually, he will answer as many as possible in this column. Email him at rwallace@galesburg.net. To find out more about Dr. Robert Wallace and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com. COPYRIGHT 2012 CREATORS.COM
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