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Born Under the Same Sign

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DR. WALLACE: I'm a Libra, and so is my boyfriend. We have been together for over two years and have been discussing the possibility of becoming husband and wife. My mother died when I was an infant, and I was raised by my mother's mother. I love my grandmother very, very much. Actually, I call her mom, not grandma, and I call my grandfather, dad. I love them equally as much. Both of them have sacrificed to give me a proper and loving upbringing.

My "mom" and "dad" like Jordan a lot and think that he will make a good husband, except that "Mom" is concerned that we were born under the same sign. She thinks those born under the same sign are not compatible and that most of these marriages are "rocky" at best because the husband and wife are too much alike. Your opinion will be appreciated. — Nameless, Vicksburg, Miss.

NAMELESS: My wife, Mona, and I met in college. We are both Aries, and our birthdays are three days apart. We both became educators. She chose elementary school, while I opted for high school. We have much in common, yet we also have different interests. I enjoy sports, while she is into quilting and collecting antiques. I can honestly say that never has our marriage been "rocky," and I sincerely doubt if it ever will be — as long as I keep saying, "Yes, Dear." (Only kidding, Mona.)

My advice is to marry the guy and to live happily ever after.

Being born under the same sign has nothing whatsoever to do with the way your marriage will turn out. Trust, compassion, respect and love have everything to do with it!

MOST ADULTS WILL BE HONORED TO HELP

DR. WALLACE: You often urge teens to talk with a trusted adult when they have a serious problem but can't confide in a parent. Well, I have a serious problem, and I want to share it with a trusted adult and get some advice. I know of two adults who might help me, but I'm concerned that they might not want to get involved. How should I approach these people to be sure they'll help me? — Nameless, DeKalb, Ill.

NAMELESS: Most adults would feel honored to have a young person ask them for advice and guidance. When you approach the person, simply say: "I need advice from an adult I can trust, and your name immediately came to mind. Can I discuss a few things with you?"

In the great majority of cases, the answer will be yes. Don't be discouraged if they answer, "I'd rather not get involved." And don't give up. A good friend's parent or another relative of yours might be a good starting point.

Dr. Robert Wallace welcomes questions from readers. Although he is unable to reply to all of them individually, he will answer as many as possible in this column. Email him at rwallace@galesburg.net. To find out more about Dr. Robert Wallace and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com.

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LW1: Are you really going to make a major life decision based on a sign? I think the fact you took this seriously means you're too immature to be married. Your grandmother on the other hand needs to have her medication revised.

LW2: If you don't have any adults you can trust - find a help line. Sometimes it's easier to talk to a stranger over the phone that you will never meet.
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Posted by: Diana
Tue Dec 20, 2011 1:17 PM
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