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Dear Larry: I discovered your column this past summer. I quickly became a devoted fan when I noted your ability to look at life without glasses of any color. This is so desperately lacking in this country. I am sorry I did not click on to you sooner.

Like many Americans, I am following the tragedy out of Fort Hood with a heavy heart. As I studied the incident, I read that others around the suspect, Maj. Nidal Malik Hasan, noted erratic behavior. They were concerned about his mental state, and this has me alarmed.

Are we so caught up in the "politically correct" movement of not racially profiling someone that we missed warning signs that might have been reported had this man been "white"? Are we so scared to report what we see because of skin color that 13 people had to pay the ultimate price?

How do we end the discrimination that keeps certain ethnic groups from being treated fairly, both as good citizens and potentially dangerous ones? — Andrea

Dear Andrea: In our current society, one of the worst labels a person can carry is "racist." This label has destroyed careers and cost many people jobs and promotions. If you work for any form of government, such a charge almost certainly will derail your career plans.

I believe perceived disadvantaged groups have sensitized America successfully, such that agencies will step lightly around any situation in which any possible charge of racism may be hurled.

I believe it is obvious that agencies gave the benefit of the doubt to Maj. Hasan. If there is an investigation, I believe it will be revealed that a supervisor or someone in authority gave the word to back off and disregard evidence.

The only way this climate of fear will end is for people to speak out for fairness.

The power structure and media will destroy the first few who speak out. However, if enough people demand fairness with voice and ballot, leaders will back down.

Dear Larry: I think you have been had regarding the young adult librarian who teaches classes on how to prevent discrimination.

This woman led the class through different exercises — lining up according to the first letters of their names and then according to their birth months. These are benign, so I wonder why, when the class was asked to line up according to skin color, anyone automatically would assume the class had left benign territory and moved to a discriminatory one?

Here is the clincher: Poll a large number of Caucasians, and ask which skin color they would prefer for themselves — pale or pasty white or a more bronzed, tan tone. I'm sure the vast majority would claim the latter. Therefore, I'm sure that the palest ones would be pushed to the back of the line.

What does this exercise prove? Nothing. I'm much taller than average, and if I were in a group that was told to line up according to height, I probably would go to the end of the line, and it would not damage my self-esteem in any way, nor would I think I was any less of a person for being at the end of the line.

It only would bother me if I were last in line to order lunch. — Charissa

Dear Charissa: If you told a group to line up according to height, most people would assume it would be "short to tall" because they have done this many times in their lives. However, being asked to line up according to color is almost unheard of. The question then becomes: Why would you put the lightest first and the darkest last? What factors would cause you to assume white should be first?

Yes, it is possible any given group could have reversed the order. However, whenever it is done, people self-align white to black. Why?

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---"Are we so caught up in the "politically correct" movement of not racially profiling someone that we missed warning signs that might have been reported had this man been "white"? Are we so scared to report what we see because of skin color that 13 people had to pay the ultimate price?"--- Yes, and yes, Andrea. Until the military is allowed to start cracking down on extremism within its ranks (and reverses the Clinton-era policy of not allowing the carrying of weapons on a military installation), the fratricide will continue.
Comment: #1
Posted by: Matt
Sat Nov 14, 2009 2:06 AM
In regards to the race lineup - I'd bet a good deal of money that it wasn't the whites who encouraged the order and the blacks simply went to the back of the line themselves. Why? Because of severe low self esteem and the assumption that all white people are racist. I think the blacks controlled the lineup and that lesson didn't teach anything about discrimination but it did teach a lesson about the black community. I've never heard of any other racial community that encourages their own to not succeed or be proud of themselves. I don't know anyone who discriminates based on race. I know a heck of a lot of people who discriminate based on behavior - that's not racist.
Comment: #2
Posted by: Diana
Sat Nov 14, 2009 3:40 PM
Thanks, Matt. I'm the letter writer in that case. Imagine my surprise to write on a Wednesday and see my message, verbatim no less, on Saturday. I used to think I was alone in my thinking that racism and discrimination were being kept alive by the same people decrying it so vocally. I often feared that I was the bad guy for wondering these things. I questioned if I was failing in my attempt to be fair to everyone.
I've told so many that Larry Meeks is one of my living heroes and I'm truly humbled that my first writing to him appeared in his column. And your support, Matt, is also appreciated (along with anyone else who thought it but did not comment). Oh what I'd give to have a fair, objective, impartial news media. I think society would be so much better for it!
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Posted by: &rea
Sun Nov 15, 2009 7:58 PM
Re: &rea. You're welcome! But you're hardly alone in recognizing the absurdity of the current state of race relations in this country. Not by a long shot. You have to realize that people like Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton would be out of a job if people of different races started getting along. Their careers depend on keeping the pot of racial grievance stirred up and being able to shake down corporations into donating to the Rainbow Coalition et al in order to prove they are not "racist." With regard to the Ft Hood shooting...Gosh, have you spent any amount of time reading blogs or political commentary online recently? I have been reading for many days now about how frustrated so many people are that the military (as evidenced by Gen George Casey's comment) seems to be more concerned about preserving "diversity" among the ranks than about spotting and ejecting soldiers who might commit fratricide for political, religious, or ideological reasons. We're hearing over and over how Maj Hasan was simply "disturbed" (true) but few outside of conservative political circles seem willing to call this what it is - a terrorist attack. I'm sure it's just a big coincidence that he had the same imam, at the same mosque, as two of the 9/11 hijackers, right? Or that he was yelling "Allahu Akbar" (Arabic for "God is great") - while shooting as his fellow soldiers. Or that known terrorists over in the Middle East think this act of war against the United States is "heroic." No, you're not alone. I suggest you read this article: http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/2009/11/09/2009-11-09_fort_hood_gunman_nidal_hassan_is_a_hero_iman_who_preached_to_911_hijackers_in_su.html
then spend some time at townhall.com, one of my favorite websites for getting the unvarnished truth about what's really going on, along with foxnews.com. Larry Elder of course absolutely nailed it in his column, too.
Comment: #4
Posted by: Matt
Tue Nov 17, 2009 11:23 PM
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