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Giving Thanks for the Leftovers

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Thanksgiving is upon us. This is the time for expressing gratitude. But what does one do on Thanksgiving this year, smack in the middle of perhaps the worst economic downturn since the Great Depression? You give thanks, dummy.

And you marvel that while stocks have crashed, home values tanked and unemployment lines grown, no one is going hungry for lack of available food. The poorest among us can still turn to food banks, soup kitchens and Food Stamps. Most American families, even those suffering serious economic setbacks, will sit down for the sort of turkey dinner that peasants in hard times past would have considered unimaginable feasts.

We moderns are good at counting our losses, but not appreciating the leftovers. And that's what Thanksgiving is about, showing gratitude for whatever has been left us.

In that regard, Thanksgiving is almost un-American. It is a day opposed to striving, to getting more. It's time to stop adding up the numbers on the scorecard of life, to freeze in place, look around and give thanks for whatever is there.

Let's summon up some Thanksgiving spirit. Thanksgiving is a full-glass holiday. It is not a time to bemoan what one's house was worth last year. To be healthy, educated and living in this land of plenty is to have one's cup running over.

Our culture does not encourage contentment with what we already have. This is the land of the upgrade. One can always do better, be it with house or spouse. Every generation is supposed to live on a posher level than the one before. Some years ago, an investment company ran an advertisement showing a young woman sitting pensively on a front porch.

The ad read: "Your father did better than his father. Are you prepared to carry on the tradition?"

Note how the warm word "tradition" is used to cover a not-very-laudable activity: intergenerational competition.

Such thinking would have been wholly foreign to the Pilgrims who celebrated the first Thanksgiving.

The events leading up to that dinner help us understand the very different mindset that inspired this holiday.

The Pilgrims were Puritans who had seceded from the Church of England. They made a grueling trek to North American so that they could worship as they chose. Their ship, the Mayflower, landed at what was to become Plymouth, Mass., on Dec. 16, 1620.

Mid-December is an awful time to establish quarters in the New England wilderness. Disease immediately carried off more than half of the 102 colonists. They were buried on Coles Hill, right across the street from Plymouth Rock. (Scholars now believe that the Mayflower really did land there.) Without the help of friendly Indians, the colony would have vanished before spring.

In 1625, the colony's governor, William Bradford, wrote that the Pilgrims "never felt the sweetness of the country till this year." But that didn't sop them from giving thanks four years earlier.

The first Thanksgiving was held in the autumn of 1621. The purpose was not to celebrate the good life, but to celebrate survival. The Wampanoag Indians shared in the dinner.

By the 1830s, America had become a bustling place of fortune-building and otherwise improving one's material lot. Intellectuals of the day looked back nostalgically at the Puritan concern with unworldly matters. Ralph Waldo Emerson, for one, spoke of the Purtians' religious orientation as "an antidote to the spirit of commerce and economy."

Thanksgiving is a throwback to that misty past. It asks for a Zen-like acceptance of the present.

So put down that 401(k) statement. Even if it says "zero," there is much to be thankful for.

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Froma -- what an inspiring perspective. Just found this quote from Winston Churchill, "We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give." Gratitude and kind words -- even during a moment of anger -- may be the secret to survival. / R (www.ritawatson.com)
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Posted by: Rita Watson
Tue Nov 25, 2008 9:52 AM
Ma'am;...I have to admit to being impressed by your intellect, and now must say I was wrong... You do not understand something about tradition, what you call intergenerational competition, and it is this: In generations past capital grew but slowly... Coming to America, one generation cleared the land, and built a shack, the next generation improved the land, and built a house. The Next generation improved on and added on, built better achieved more, got greater education, improving always its posititon in society with hard work and ingenuity... That progress has stopped... To feed interest, all the profit was stolen from farming... Middle men and bankers and taxes got it all, and so the farm was given up... Moving to the city, people could afford less, and had less children in the expectation that the wealth given to social security would save them in age... That wealth supported little the first social security generation, supports badly the greatest generation, and will support my generation not at all, but it was a theft of wealth... And all along, the process begun on the farms, of taking out of the productive people, and giving to the rich was continued, and added to, of making people work always for less of wages and more of promises...If people did better in the last generation it was by losing themselves of capital built up by generations, and so they were actually losing ground, having less and less to leave to their children... To get by, and to seem to get by, we could only have on credit, which sucked the capital out of us until we are now a people dependent upon the good will of our employers, with few productive jobs, and nothing left to sell but our civil rights...Look about you... The rich own this country and our government... The people have no equity, and no hope... Far from exceeding the generations past, they are not hanging onto anything... Do you see reverse mortgages advertized to the aged poor??? There goes a family's capital, their real progress... Who will buy their funerals when their wealth is gone, gone, gone... We have bought the illusion of progress with a mortgage on our futures... How many people will have to become Okies in our day, cutting loose, and saying good bye to earthly possessions to follow some hope of employment at the end of the road??? What does a nation do when the past is before it, instead of behind??? I have plenty to be thankful for... Not so my father, who may live to see a second great depression...For my part, the greatest blessing is a disenthralled mind... Faith is all that is holding this society together, and that is about to be tested and busted flat... I am already there...Thanks...Sweeney
Comment: #2
Posted by: James A, Sweeney
Tue Nov 25, 2008 3:18 PM
Thank you for acknowledging we have the richest "poor" in the world. At least in San Antonio we have about 1000 private groups that support the poor in addition to some government aid that always seems to founder. Going hungry in this city comes from an ignorance of where to go for help and not availability.

My dad claimed that during the depression the Soviets made an anti-capitalism propaganda film of the Okies moving to California during the dust bowl and depression. It backfired when the Russian people noticed the "poor" people going down the highway had CARS and TRUCKS and STUFF and could go where they pleased. Poverty and hardship is relative.


Comment: #3
Posted by: Steve Grigory
Fri Nov 28, 2008 9:37 AM
I don't agree with Harrop often, but today's column makes a lot of good sense. Sweeney, I see, is occupying his usual position- namely, off his rocker and rambling incoherently.
Comment: #4
Posted by: Matt
Mon Dec 1, 2008 9:38 PM
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