Lenore Skenazy from Creators Syndicate https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy Creators Syndicate is an international syndication company that represents cartoonists and columnists of the highest caliber. en Tue, 21 Aug 2018 18:08:13 -0700 https://www.creators.com/ http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Lenore Skenazy from Creators Syndicate https://cdn.creators.com/features/lenore-skenazy-thumb.jpg https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy f1e41edf18d56c16a6559b2b810d79a2 Can a Non-Parent Give a Parent Advice? for 08/16/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/08/18/can-a-non-parent-give-a-parent-advice Thu, 16 Aug 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>After a long day at Disneyland, Ann's brother and sister-in-law put their 5- and 6-year-olds to bed and let their "very, very cranky 8-year-old hang out and torture" everyone, recalls Ann (not her real name, for reasons that will become obvious).</p> <p>"I suggested they put the boy to bed, as well, to put him &#8212; and all of us &#8212; out of his misery. My brother went off on me with, 'Sis, until you have kids, do not tell me how to raise mine! You have no idea of the politics that exist with bedtimes and older versus younger children!' I said, 'If it's about politics, aren't you the president in this house?'"<p>Updated: Thu Aug 16, 2018</p> 8c38cb7a6a5df299236cd4a87f70ab98 The Next Big Thing (or Not) for 08/09/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/08/18/the-next-big-thing-or-not Thu, 09 Aug 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Trends are not something I would say I'm great at predicting. Years ago, when I was passing the Empire State Building, two tourists asked me whether I'd take their picture. "Sure," I said. One handed me a phone.</p> <p>"What the heck?" said I.<p>Updated: Thu Aug 09, 2018</p> 44409036c6988db7e49306bd98892168 The Kids Aren't All Right for 08/02/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/08/18/the-kids-arent-all-right-b9207 Thu, 02 Aug 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Childhood anxiety is giving <i> us </i> anxiety. Nearly a third of American adolescents meet the criteria for an anxiety disorder, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Even among younger kids, anxiety is on the rise. But as my Let Grow co-founder, Boston College psychology professor Peter Gray, notes, crime rates are at a 50-year low, so it's not because the world has been getting scarier.</p> <p>It's because we have been getting more scared. The media make us believe there's a predator behind every pine tree. So we keep our kids closer than ever, meaning they rarely have the kind of free, unstructured, unsupervised time that serves as a pressure valve.<p>Updated: Thu Aug 02, 2018</p> a8c61abdac1d62d6b700bfc5e51443f5 Can't He Still Be Our Neighbor? for 07/27/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/07/18/cant-he-still-be-our-neighbor Fri, 27 Jul 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Mr. Rogers was the host of a half-hour of calm for kids from 1968 until 2001. On other channels you could find flying squirrels, falling pianos and grouches in garbage cans. But tune in to Mr. Rogers Neighborhood and you found a soft-spoken middle-aged guy in a cardigan who spent his days talking and sometimes singing with a worn-out sock puppet and some equally low-key, kindly neighbors.</p> <p>To many kids, including (I am now ashamed to say) me, it looked like the most boring place on earth. To others, a new documentary reveals, it was a haven, a hearth, free therapy, the spark of god and a warm, loving family all rolled into one. <p>Updated: Fri Jul 27, 2018</p> c1b97e770240516569c75da9818775ef Give Your Kids More Time to Just Play for 07/19/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/07/18/give-your-kids-more-time-to-just-play Thu, 19 Jul 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>When the world's leaders gather at Davos, they talk about business, society and the future. This year, they took time to talk about a surprising economic priority:</p> <p>Free play!<p>Updated: Thu Jul 19, 2018</p> aaed653d7a6c2e2367efcd64c247f760 America Won't Win the World Cup Until We Ditch the Shoes for 07/12/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/07/18/america-wont-win-the-world-cup-until-we-ditch-the-shoes Thu, 12 Jul 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Why didn't the American men's soccer team qualify for the 2018 FIFA World Cup?</p> <p>Simple: Kids in America grow up playing soccer in shoes.<p>Updated: Thu Jul 12, 2018</p> 9c1dc1b65f6fff45e8545486622ec1e4 How Helicopter Parents Get That Way for 07/05/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/07/18/how-helicopter-parents-get-that-way Thu, 05 Jul 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>When you pick up a copy of Parents magazine, you expect to read information that is useful, not just crazy-making. But recently, a piece appeared on the magazine's website promising to tell readers how to lower their children's risk of getting sick at the pool.</p> <p>"The (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's) latest report came to some alarming conclusions about swimming-related disease outbreaks," it begins. "Here's what parents need to know going into pool season."<p>Updated: Thu Jul 05, 2018</p> 70c120a9d1439815bbb4e56c1523ec18 Kids Waiting in Cars Are Safer Than You Think for 06/28/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/06/18/kids-waiting-in-cars-are-safer-than-you-think Thu, 28 Jun 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Every couple of weeks, I get an email time-stamped 2 or 3 a.m. because the sender can't sleep. Here's one that came three weeks ago:</p> <p>"Dear Lenore: I am a special police officer in Washington, DC. I wake up (at) 4 am to work 6 am-6 pm and get home by 8 pm. No family at all. No support. Never been arrested or anything. Don't drink. Don't smoke. Don't date. Don't party. I literally have no life trying to be the best parent I can. My son is 2 and had fallen asleep after our second grocery store looking for rice milk. It was 7:50 pm and 65 degrees."<p>Updated: Thu Jun 28, 2018</p> 4e7af344f2e1430297a6faea2c8ee2d3 Warning to Parents: You Are About to Do Something Very Dangerous for 06/21/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/06/18/warning-to-parents-you-are-about-to-do-something-very-dangerous Thu, 21 Jun 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>If you're wondering why parenting seems so fraught, go to a store such as Target or Walmart and check out the baby items aisle. It is crammed with stuff that makes it seem as if your child is literally crawling to death's door unless you do or buy something IMMEDIATELY.</p> <p>Today I saw this ad from a company selling some new kind of diaper-changing contraption:<p>Updated: Thu Jun 21, 2018</p> cb2616e9e3deb1cd58417d43c765231f (Really) Old-Fashioned Fun for 06/14/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/06/18/really-old-fashioned-fun Thu, 14 Jun 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>What's as old as summer?</p> <p>These games. The good ones. Do your kids know them?<p>Updated: Thu Jun 14, 2018</p> 10471e96e880fc68dfadf4fc44d2448c The Sex Traffic Panic for 06/07/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/06/18/the-sex-traffic-panic Thu, 07 Jun 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Open up Facebook and be prepared to be accosted by fear. Moms across America are writing breathless accounts of how sex traffickers nearly snatched their children at Target/Ikea/the grocery.</p> <p>One such mom posted: "A man came up to us (at Sam's Club) and asked if the empty cart nearby was ours. ... He was an African American with a shaved head. ... It seemed like an innocent encounter." Innocent, that is, until the mom and kids headed to Walmart and saw the guy again. He was "feverishly texting on his phone but not taking his eye off my daughter," the mom wrote.<p>Updated: Thu Jun 07, 2018</p> 097e59cc39f3414f7b30e2c321af644e America's Doctor for 05/31/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/05/18/americas-doctor Thu, 31 May 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>At a duel, each man is allowed to choose a doctor to accompany him. At the most famous duel in American history &#8212; Alexander Hamilton vs. Aaron Burr, 1804 &#8212; both men chose Dr. Hosack.</p> <p>Um, who?<p>Updated: Thu May 31, 2018</p> 80e5b5b51ffa68942e1dcaad7961088d My, What Big Neuroses You Have! for 05/17/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/05/18/my-what-big-neuroses-you-have Thu, 17 May 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Little Red Riding Hood went into the woods to take a basket of bread and jam to her ailing grandmother. On her way there, she met a wolf, who asked where she was going, and when Little Red Riding Hood told him, the wolf replied, "Oh, my gosh, I haven't visited my grandmother in, like, a month!" Guiltily, he slunk off to gather some nuts for his vegan grandmother, who was delighted to see him and asked him why he was still single.</p> <p>On the way home, the wolf and Little Red Riding Hood ran into each other again and agreed: Visiting Grandma is something you should do.<p>Updated: Thu May 17, 2018</p> e8ea854efef592c4e172a2686e1127d6 Scaring Does Not Mean Caring for 05/10/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/05/18/scaring-does-not-mean-caring Thu, 10 May 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Provocateur Joey Salads, a comedian who doesn't seem to care about sowing paranoia, keeps making videos about extremely rare and unlikely crimes to "teach parents a lesson." That lesson is inevitably: Your children will be snatched the second you take your eyes off them.</p> <p>It doesn't seem to matter to him that he is reinforcing an idea that is already both rampant and untrue: Everyone is just waiting for the split-second opportunity to steal our kids.<p>Updated: Thu May 10, 2018</p> 01ae7ee32b4a96ccf18b1d3e540d2446 The Modern Baby for 05/03/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/05/18/the-modern-baby Thu, 03 May 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Babies haven't changed much in about a million years. But how we view and raise them? That's changing all the time and, in the process, changing us, says Janet Golden, a professor of history at Rutgers and author of the new book "Babies Made Us Modern: How Infants Brought America into the Twentieth Century."</p> <p>At the dawn of the 1900s, infant mortality was still so common that photographers routinely took pictures of babies in their coffins &#8212; eyes open &#8212; as keepsakes for the parents. It was only as mortality rates fell (and Kodak introduced its Brownie camera) that another kind of picture became popular: snapshots of babies very much alive, even giggly. That's when baby books &#8212; diaries for moms to fill in with baby's word, first tooth, etc. &#8212; started including a page where parents were told to paste a baby photo.<p>Updated: Thu May 03, 2018</p> 95d7b2582a68ad4f9fd66cd14cb41c8e Treating Tweens Like Toddlers for 04/26/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/04/18/treating-tweens-like-toddlers Thu, 26 Apr 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>"Why am I required to pick my kid up from school when she's fine walking home by herself?"</p> <p>That's a question I get a lot, and all I can say is: Because.<p>Updated: Thu Apr 26, 2018</p> ecca62a742fc9d3c4478b99293d5bf1c The Fashion Icons You Never Heard Of for 04/19/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/04/18/the-fashion-icons-you-never-heard-of Thu, 19 Apr 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>"Who are you wearing?" is a question Oscar contenders answer easily. Their designers are sometimes as famous as they are. But it wasn't always so. For instance, have you heard of Kiviette or Zelda Wynn Valdes?</p> <p>Neither had I until I got "The Hidden History of American Fashion: Rediscovering 20th-Century Women Designers," edited by Nancy Deihl, director of the graduate program in costume studies at New York University. Each chapter focuses on a now-forgotten woman who, often behind the scenes, designed the clothing that changed the way America dressed.<p>Updated: Thu Apr 19, 2018</p> 658b0ab01a9fe4684655b4e26731f161 Another Lesson in Fear for 04/12/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/04/18/another-lesson-in-fear Thu, 12 Apr 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>Here's how parents are being brainwashed into fear for their kids and contempt for their communities. Remember: This fear is new. Our parents weren't browbeaten into thinking that anytime a child opened the door and stepped outside, the parent was a negligent hussy and the kid was dead meat. But here's how Julie Chen, co-host of "The Talk," introduced Utah's new law regarding free-range parenting:</p> <p>"A new law has passed in Utah encouraging, quote, 'free-range parenting.' The law, which takes effect next month, specifies that it is not a crime for parents to allow kids who display maturity and good judgment to walk to school alone or play outside unsupervised. Lawmakers say the legislation was introduced to encourage more self-reliance among children. However, some critics fear the new legislation could put kids in harm's way. What do you think of this law?"<p>Updated: Thu Apr 12, 2018</p> c1dfcaf93138e933e187ef9485798a1d Mad Libs for the Office for 04/05/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/04/18/mad-libs-for-the-office Thu, 05 Apr 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>You still have a job? Really? That's so strange.</p> <p>But these forms aren't. They're coming soon to a desk near you:<p>Updated: Thu Apr 05, 2018</p> 31e953eaac7f84f20ae3f570d7a904ce A Bad Bullying Bill for 03/29/2018 https://www.creators.com/read/lenore-skenazy/03/18/a-bad-bullying-bill Thu, 29 Mar 2018 00:00:00 -0700 <p></p><p>A state representative in Pennsylvania has proposed a bill that would fine the parents of "bullies" up to $750 and make them attend parenting classes.</p> <p>State Rep. Frank Burns, a Democrat, spent last year extracting anti-bullying pledges from every school in his district, which is outside Johnstown. While on what sounds like a rather bullying tour, he heard stories from bullied kids and decided to redouble his efforts.<p>Updated: Thu Mar 29, 2018</p>