I agree with you 100%. I have an 11 yr old daughter who has been "free range" around our neighborhood for years. I believe in teaching her to trust her gut as far as trusting anyone, be they a friend, teacher, relative, or neighbor. Certain behaviors are unacceptable.
She is allowed to take her dog to the park. Play outside in our yard. Yes people are scared about that. They are scared for her to be alone in our apartment.
I feel she is growing to be able to use good judgement and not just be afraid.
Brenda,
Houston,
Texas