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Why I Let My 9-Year-Old Ride the Subway Alone

by Lenore Skenazy

I left my 9-year-old at Bloomingdale's a couple of weeks ago. Last seen, he was in first-floor handbags as I sashayed out the door.

Bye-bye! Have fun!

And he did. He came home on the subway and bus himself.

Was I worried? Yes, a tinge. But it didn't strike me as that daring, either. New York is as safe now as it was in 1963. It's not as if we're living in downtown Baghdad.

Anyway, for weeks my boy had been begging for me to please leave him somewhere, anywhere, and ...

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Posted by: Brenda
Comment: #1
Mon Apr 14, 2008 11:01 AM

I agree with you 100%. I have an 11 yr old daughter who has been "free range" around our neighborhood for years. I believe in teaching her to trust her gut as far as trusting anyone, be they a friend, teacher, relative, or neighbor. Certain behaviors are unacceptable. She is allowed to take her dog to the park. Play outside in our yard. Yes people are scared about that. They are scared for her to be alone in our apartment. I feel she is growing to be able to use good judgement and not just be afraid. Brenda, Houston, Texas

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