DEAR SUSAN: My live-in companion of three years has been married for 12 years and separated for several. They have no children. He tells me that he's going to get a formal divorce this summer. Because things have gotten more serious between us, this has bothered me more and more. I know it's his personal matter, but I'm worried he may procrastinate. Should I wait patiently or express my needs? — Sandi K., Long Island, N.Y.

DEAR SANDI: Color me incredulous. You've lived with this ...

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