Tuesday, December 02, 2008 | 3:51 p.m.

Sweet Somethings

by John Gray
Dear John: My wife, "Teri," has a habit of bringing up conflict issues when we're around friends and family. When Teri does this, she focuses on making me look like the bad one. Of course, when this happens, we get mad at one another in front of our company. It is the worst feeling to have people looking at us and our problems! Why is this happening? -- Her Dolt, in Sarasota, Fla.

Dear Dolt: My guess is that Teri may be looking for an audience who can support her point of view. Wha ...

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Posted by: Laurie
Comment: #1
Mon Jun 9, 2008 7:36 PM

IN regard to Teri, maybe she also doesnt have an opportunity to ever speak up? Perhaps he doesnt listen? How about setting aside a talking time where they promise to take turns listening to each other. Writing down problems, trying to understand the other's point of view and seeking a compromise. Ignoring her isn't going to help. Promising to listen later, would be more effective.

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