He controls everything. He insisted on this house — three doors down from his parents. I can't even consider work in another city. And any vacation we get is used up on the annual trip to his sister's.

Whether you struggle with a partner over where to live, what to eat or where to send the kids to school, what you struggle for is control, or power.

Only one of you can have the deciding vote, which means the other one has to relinquish power ...

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