DEAR SUSAN: I've lived with a man for nearly three years. He won't marry me, and he won't let me make my own decisions about my life. I don't want to date other people, but I feel the other facets of my life need to be "single." — Louisa K., Long Island, N.Y.

DEAR LOUISA: Pray tell me, fair damsel, what parts of your life AREN'T single?! You're on your own as far as the world can see, sharing a bed (but not a name) with someone who doesn't think you're wife material. Te ...

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