DEAR SUSAN: One comment regarding the very bitter man who wrote about your supposed male-bashing. I think it's funny he assumes that MOST women want a breadwinner. Yes, there are women out there looking for that security, but most of my friends want to be just as independent and self-supporting in their relationships as the man. As for me, I look for companionship and love — certainly not for someone to "finally" pay the bills. — Jamie J., Long Island, N.Y.

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