Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
by John Gray
Dear John: My husband and I have a good relationship, but just one problem concerns me: He uses a lot of pot, usually when he goes out with his friends. Once at a party, he used ecstasy. Whenever I warn him that it may cause an addiction, he tells me that he is careful, that he is not addicted and that I don't need to be worried. He says he only uses it for fun.
I'm so angry that I've told him that if he does not stop his drug use, I will divorce him. I also forbade him to go out with ...
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Posted by: Jen
Comment: #1
Sun Jul 6, 2008 5:55 AM
I don't agree with your advice to the woman whose boyfriend is using drugs. Counseling or a group like NA, I think, is more for someone who is willing to quit their addiction and looking for help. The boyfriend doesn't seem to be at this point yet from the way the girlfriend describes him. If she really wants him to stop the drugs, she needs to tell him that next time, she's calling the cops - and then do it. Drugs *are* illegal, you know... And worse, if he starts doing them in their home and ever gets caught, she will be in legal trouble also for allowing it to happen and not turning him in.
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