Dear John: "Gary" and I met in high school. Our parents thought we had dated too young. Then I got pregnant. When we married, I was already in my third trimester.

It's been two years now, and I do love my husband. However, when I run into a particular friend, a male, these questions pop into my head: "What if I had dated him instead?" or "What if I had married him?" I've always thought that when we meet "the right one," there is never a doubt.