Dear John: How do you get over the fear of commitment? People have said that I am afraid of commitment, but I think that they are wrong. What is love? Is it a choice, or does it just happen with two people? Hope you can help me out; my dating life is a mess and I need some advice! -- This Man Knows His Mind in Boston

Dear This Man: Falling in love is not something you really have control over, but you can make a concerted choice to stay in love. It's natural for us to think that falling in o ...

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