LW #2 - The Ladies were right on with their response to you but I would like to add one more thing; Please don't get married until you grow up. What are you? 12? That was one of the silliest letters I've seen in a long time.

Why on earth would you think about asking someone to be a bridesmaid if you haven't talked to them in months? Why do you think they would like to be one? The way it sounds I would be surprised if they even came to the wedding. LW 2 sounds immature

Dear Worried Bride, it has been quite a few years ago when I met and befriended a young woman at college. I had her and her boyfriend at my home listened to her complaints and shared mine, etc. When she told me she was getting married and if I lost weight I could be her bridesmaid. Since she told me her obese sister had not problem getting men. I say I was dazed and confused for about 2 minutes and realized she was a passing acquaintaince and just too young for me to hang. It has been years now and she might have grown up, changed,etc and I have no hard feelings it was just another experience. Honey you need to take a look at yourself in the mirror and ask if you were suddenly ill and needed them would they be there for you? It is obvious that you would not be their for them because you are judgemental and also immature. Since you're able to find fault with your former peers and can air such mean things I suspect you are also just a passing acquaintaince. What is your plan if you get pregnant and have a few kids of your own and gain the weight. And if these young ladies live at home, party and make have social issues just doesn't give you reason to belittle them. I suggest you send them a copy of your complaint to ease your worries because I am sure they won't come to your wedding.

I have a 6 uncles and about 7 aunts because one is now deceased. I also don't have any grandparents left living and one day your brother and other siblings will pass into eternity, too.Your daughter and her friend talked about sex, relatives, complaints,and other viewpoints, etc. These things are inappropriate for an uncle to even know about his niece and so this separation is very appropriate. Your daughter can't expect the same relationship no matter whom her friend married. She will understand when she gets married that certain walls are automatically built up because she will also should be loyal to the private things that go on in a marriage. The same thing you should apply to your relationship with your brother he is married and there are things that are private between him and his wife that you do not need to know.

Have a question I am concerned about. In the past year or two may wife will not take her gown off when making love. I feel that something is wrong, but I do not get a response when I ask her why. It is just not as intimate to me. Is this natural or is there a possible problem? What can I do to solve the problem?

Re: Jeff ---------- Have you made negative remarks about her body? Is she too skinny, too fat? She's obviously self-conscious about her body for some reason. Maybe she had surgery and there's a scar. Maybe she had a baby and she has stretch marks. Selfconsciousness about some real or imagined problem with her body is the first thing that comes to mind. The other is that she simply likes to have the nightgown on because she's cold without it.

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Regarding LW1: Dan should have thought about these things before marrying a woman half his age! Since he doesn't want his niece to change the way she addresses Karen, why should she have to change the way she addresses him? He is her uncle biologically and was her uncle long before Karen came into the picture. He made his bed; let him lie in it!

if the uncle doesn't want to be called uncle, what's the problem??? the title is a form of respect and if he supports his wife in her mistreatment of family and friends then he doesn't deserve respect! (although spouses should support one another, marriage vows do not negate common decency...)