Are women really so desperate and needy that they actually put up with crap like these two? Come on already.

For a short time, a long, long time ago, I dated a guy who made me feel like a queen. He knew exactly what I needed to make me fall for him. He neglected to tell me he had a wife and child at home (he was 21, I was 18, so I really didn't expect that). Telling him to get lost was devastating to me, but I didn't and still wouldn't date a married man. Fast forward to the present, and he was recently arrested for the murder of his girlfriend. Thank God for unanswered prayers.

i have been seeing someone one on the "casual field", so I shouldnt bother with worry about the other women who call, txt, and stop to see him, because i have stated that "this" between him and me is just casual, not personal...he's great in bed...but is he worth the headache....?

i said nothing about needy.... Shit I'm a whole woman... not haf who needs a man to cover it

I have a question, too. Why are women sleeping with men with whom they are only casually involved? Do they not even first insist on commitment anymore? No wonder we have STD's rampaging through the population and have unwed pregnancy rates around 50% or higher these days.

Second one is just so silly it doesn't take a rocket scientist to tell her its time to move on little lady. A spade is a spade and no amount of wishing, praying or hoping to get him to be a decent human being and tell you the truth outright. Ok, "struggling to love you back" - simple terms - he doesn't love you and you are getting on her nerves. Pick up the self respect you left on the floor and get a clue and some much needed therapy.