It's interesting to sit in the middle and get mail from both sides of the proverbial aisle about immediate versus delayed gratification.

"He has a drink and he can't contain himself. … All of a sudden, having sex is no more than eating another potato chip," writes one reader.

"She has no idea how to just relax and enjoy the moment. … I don't know what she's saving herself for," writes another reader.

When is it in your best interest to let go and trust ...

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