DEAR SUSAN: You make me crazy! You, the big promoter of women being more forward, are suggesting that your reader try your ploys. Don't you know that they are exactly what men hate? Setting up some phony situation where the guy is supposed to "get the hint" is not making the first move — it's manipulative wishful thinking. And controlling. Cynthia C. should forget your advice and listen to me.

Cynthia, step No. 1: Get to the seat and sit next to him. If there's another ...

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