DEAR SUSAN: Your comment that casual sex usually involves one partner who's looking for more, and that it's usually the woman who wants more, sounds sexist. It may seem that it's more often the woman, but only because men don't talk about these things as much. Many men are hurt by casual sex. Give some of us guys a break. We're trying. — Matt F., Long Island, N.Y.

DEAR MATT: How well I know! Letters from men make up a lot of my reader mail, to the point that one woman wrote: &quo ...

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