My husband and I share a car, which was originally mine. We share both the benefits, the responsibilities and the work. I do not have a "driver" or a "maintenance man" and I would not think of my husband in those terms.
Yes, you can change situations by changing your attitude. Your column was probably somewhat playful, but if you were serious, you've gone from one rather childish attitude to another.
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