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LW2: I find it tiresome to keep reading letters from men who claim to be "too nice" and who are very angry that they have been overlooked by women who only want bad boys. In my opinion, this is a myth perpetuated by men who deep down hate women. I've met guys like this. I'm related to one. He's hugely fat, well past middle-age, very set in his ways, and he still gets starry-eyed when he talks about a girl he had a crush on in high school. He's rejected several women who have looked past his considerable flaws and liked him anyway, but he's very bitter that 16-year-old cheerleaders still won't have him. He imagines all these horrible women rejecting him at every turn because he is just too wonderful for this world. For one thing, he isn't nearly as nice as he thinks he is, and neither are these other guys with the same attitude.

Even the minority of women who are attracted to bad boys usually get their hearts broken by them so thoroughly that by their late 20s (at least) they are incredibly, permanently OVER that. Overwhelmingly, women want truly nice men who will treat them with respect and care for them for who they are and not just for their superficial appearance. I found a guy like that in my early 30s and married him, and I'm still married to him more than 20 years later.

If you really are a nice guy, there is someone who can't wait to meet you. A lot of someones. But you need to be genuinely nice and not just think overly highly of yourself. And you need to be interested in normal women reasonably close to your own age. Otherwise, you are just believing your own nonsense.