Paul, wanting his girlfriend to wear extremely high heels and the extremely short skirts, has a fetish. This isn't a matter of propriety, it is a matter of sexual desire. Most men keep it in the bedroom. If Paul can't, he isn't the man for her. There's no sense staying together and fighting over an issue as big as this one. Let him go to find someone who shares in this fetish or learn to love it and go along. If you wonder what I mean, just look into the Frederick's of Hollywood catalogue sometime. If you don't believe me, consider his buying someone who has objected dozens of those outfits for her birthday.