Phooey on everything John said to the woman whose husband is taking another woman out for the evening. Tell him to drop the bimbo or get out. Period.

I get so sick of all this advice that women are supposed to twist themselves into pretzels rather than ask men to learn some emotional skills, or confront them directly. Why is it US who have to do all of the accomodating?
As far as not confronting the husband about emotionally cheating- oh no, we wouldn't want him to feel defensive! But it is okay for the woman to feel bad.
Are we still supposed to be men's mommies and servants??