Dear John: I am a 20-year-old college co-ed. I've had a couple of (short- term) boyfriends and physical encounters with guys, but nothing special. I have this big fear of inadequacy — that when I finally meet someone I want to spend the rest of my life with, that I'll be terribly inexperienced and he'll wonder why, and reject me. This fear fuels me to do things I wouldn't normally do — just so I can get some "experience" in the bedroom. Am I being totally irrational? &md ...

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