Dear john, i have been married now for 24 years and my husband, out of the blue came home and decided he's not sure if he still loves me anymore. he claims it is all him and not me, he is still attracted to me and claims that we have the greatest sex life he could ever want. but says that is not everything. he is under a lot of pressure at work and is not sure if he will have a job with the company he is with,with past January. i understand that, but he says that he is not happy with where his life is going and is not sure if he wants his life with me anymore. my quesstion is how long am i suppose to wait to see what he wants to do. he says he is not seeing anyone or interested in anyone else that he just isn't happy. we are not having any sex and won't leave the house to decide what he wants to do. i am extremely lonely and it is very hard to live in the same house with him and he just does what he wants and excludes me from everything. He really won't talk to me or go for any outside help and expects me to be in limbo. what am i suppose to do. I love this man dearly and am a emotional wreck. i think he is going through what everyone says his midlife crisis. but how can we work on this whatever the outcome if he just lives here and does whata he wantas what am i suppose to do. please help me for i am at my witts end with my life in limbo. sincerely dsvg