Sexual fantasies are like dreams. They don't adhere to our self-imposed or societal guidelines for what's acceptable.

Consequently, we might feel uncomfortable — or even guilty — about what arouses us. Do you listen to those who admonish you to keep to the straight and narrow? Or do you follow the school of thought that says fantasies make for healthier and more exciting relationships?

In any case, you can't really control what arouses you; you can only avoid or deny ...

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