DEAR SUSAN: Your response to Penelope G. missed the point. Whether or not she and her beau actually live together under the same roof, they really need to live in the same town and the same culture before they tie the knot. (It sounds as if he lives on the West Coast — a far different environment from her home state of Indiana.) Hurrah for him if he's realizing he wants to know her through the ups and downs of everyday life and know her friends and real values before they make a lifetim ...

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