I realize this was probably written years ago but: I think Ann was missing something in her advice to LW1. The LW has already told dad to stop and it hasn't worked. Telling him again isn't going to do any good. She needs to go talk to her husband and immediately. If he finds out by way of intercepting one of these gifts, he is probably going to conclude that his wife is participating in this crush. If she tells him, she might find out what kind of husband he is. Does he take her side or does he decide that he prefers the connection he has with his dad?

Eh, I think they are prudes. The kids are 21 and 23, let 'em sleep together, especially considering they're already sexually involved. What I would give to be able to just SLEEP with my love...