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What's the Difference Between University And College?

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DR. WALLACE: I'm a junior in high school, and I'm planning to be an attorney after finishing my education. I was thinking about attending the University of Illinois or Northwestern University because they have, I've been told, excellent law schools.

But my school counselor, who is a graduate of a liberal arts college, is trying to convince me that it would be more beneficial for me to attend a liberal arts college. She keeps telling me that liberal arts graduates are more well-rounded.

What exactly are liberal arts colleges, and why is a degree from them so "well-rounded?" —Nameless, Chicago, Ill.

NAMELESS: Northwestern and the University of Illinois are both excellent schools where students can get a well-rounded, liberal education. It may be that your counselor is trying to get you to be less single-minded and career-focused in your higher education goals at this point in your life.

A liberal education provides students with a sound foundation in such basic disciplines as English, philosophy, history, psychology, physics, mathematics and music. The idea, according to Sally Springer and Marion Franck, authors of "Admission Matters," is that people with this type of education are well prepared regardless of their ultimate career choice. Indeed, they are well prepared for life.

What distinguishes small liberal arts colleges from many large universities is that they usually have small classes taught exclusively by faculty members, giving students a lot more personal and individual attention.

Such schools also are not career-focused, emphasizing instead, learning for the sake of learning.

DO NOT SIT AT HOME AND MOPE

DR. WALLACE: I'm 16 and used to have the sweetest boyfriend a girl could ever have. We did everything together and shared all of our innermost secrets.

About a month ago he started to act strange, and about two weeks ago he ignored me. He used to call me every night. But now I have to get on my knees and beg him to call me. Usually, he doesn't.

Finally I got him to tell me he is seeing another girl. I am heartbroken. What should I do? —Carla, Tacoma, Wash.

CARLA: No boy is worth getting on your knees and begging! The fastest way to forget this guy is to start dating another. Do not sit at home and mope. Instead, get active in community, church and school activities. And don't forget to do fun things with your girlfriends. Smile a lot, and you'll meet other nice guys. And you won't have to beg them to call!

Dr. Robert Wallace welcomes questions from readers. Although he is unable to reply to all of them individually, he will answer as many as possible in this column. Email him at rwallace@galesburg.net. To find out more about Dr. Robert Wallace and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com.

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LW2: What's happened here is what tends to happen in many teen-age relationships – one (either the boy or the girl) lose interest and decide they want to "go with someone else." He's not a jerk, he's not a bad person ... he'll probably always be a friend or a good person to you in some way. But he decided that another girl, or perhaps no girl, is best for him right now and has decided to move on.

And there could be other things going on in his life that he doesn't want to share right now or are otherwise occupying his mind.

The best thing is to do exactly what Dr. Wallace suggests – find a new boyfriend. But make sure you're ready for that new boyfriend; don't just date one just for the sake of having a boyfriend. The ideas of becoming involved in school and church activities, doing things with your other friends, etc., are excellent ideas to deal with the end of your first relationship in the meantime.

Have a good cry and get over your first boyfriend first, then re-enter the dating pool.
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Posted by: Bobaloo
Wed Mar 6, 2013 6:07 AM
The worst thing someone can do is waste your time. He may have done it all because he didn't want to hurt you but if he'd had balls he would have been up front, let you know and cut you loose so he wouldn't waste you time. Don't let anyone waste your time again. Go out, have some fun but don't let yourself get tied down by anyone who doesn't value you and wastes your time.
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Posted by: Laurie
Thu Mar 7, 2013 12:54 AM
Beware Liberal Arts Schools may cost more money, and there credits may not transfer to other schools. You may have to take the same classes all over again to get credits. Also some of the degrees are funky at Liberal Arts Schools. There are is not a whole lot of jobs out there for Philosophers and Psychologists. Both these degrees are dead end in the job market. The colleges get your money, and there is no job future.
Comment: #3
Posted by: SUNRISE
Thu Mar 7, 2013 7:45 AM
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