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Three Cheers for All Grocery Baggers!

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DR. WALLACE: I'm writing in response to the letter from the young man whose mother thought it was beneath his dignity to work as a grocery bagger. I am now a sophomore in college and must pay my own way. My first job was as a bagger in a large grocery chain. The work was hard, but honest, and I learned a lot about the grocery business.

I am now attending college full-time and still working part-time at the same grocery store. I now work at the cash register (it pays more), but, at times, I still bag groceries. When I graduate from college, I'd like to continue working for this grocery chain and, hopefully, become a store manager for them. I like my company very much. They care about their employees. - Carolyn, Portland, Ore.

CAROLYN: Your letter is an excellent response. You are fortunate to be working for a company that cares about its employees, and your company is fortunate to have such a loyal and dedicated worker. I have no doubts that you will be an excellent store manager. Hard, honest work should never be mocked, and no one is ever the poorer for learning a humble job and doing it well!

When I coached varsity basketball at La Quinta High School in Garden Grove, Calif., one of our players bagged groceries at a supermarket during the off season. He earned a scholarship to play basketball at Pasadena Nazarene College and after graduating went to work in administration for a large Southern California grocery chain — all because he was an excellent grocery bagger!

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Dr. Robert Wallace welcomes questions from readers. Although he is unable to reply to all of them individually, he will answer as many as possible in this column. Email him at rwallace@galesburg.net. To find out more about Dr. Robert Wallace and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com.

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Cheers to the grocery bagger!

My high school boyfriend worked for about two years at a grocery store, first in the produce section, then as a bagger. People treated him with such disrespect! At that particular store, the bag boy was essentially the b!tch, and got the most unpleasant jobs. When one elderly customer messed all over the bathroom, he had to wipe the waste off the walls (!)

For his hard work, he was rewarded by another elderly lady, who went on a tirade while he was carrying her groceries to her car and called him a "minimum wage slave" (if I recall, there was something minor she had asked him to do and he wouldn't for whatever reason, but I can't remember the details anymore).

I am one of the millions who, despite graduating from university, is only making a few dollars above minimum wage now. There are simply very few jobs for a great many young people in my city. I am at least lucky that I have a job related to my degree, and the new director is promising a raise in the next contract, but I'll still be in the decided "have-nots" of this country. Many in my parents' generation simply don't get it, and often ask why I don't get "a real job?"

Please treat all service employees with dignity. Just because it's low-paying doesn't mean anyone is beneath anyone else.
Comment: #1
Posted by: Jers
Fri Dec 16, 2011 6:53 AM
@Jers: You've got it so right.

It's amazing, but the people most likely to abuse folks in service jobs are most likely to be those who aren't earning their own way in life. That elderly lady was most likely living on a pension or on Social Security, at the expense of taxpayers such as the young man she was verbally abusing.

Please don't pay any attention to the spoiled Baby Boomers. They truly don't realize they lucked into a great time and place to be born, or that if they had to start over again at today's cost of education, with today's much more limited job opportunities, they'd be hard pressed to get one of the minimum wage jobs they despise. They truly believed they did it all themselves. They also can't handle the fact that your minimum wage income tax is going to be what's financing their Social Security in a year or two.
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Posted by: R.A.
Fri Dec 16, 2011 10:03 AM
LW1: How insufferable, being mean to grocery baggers! They make sure my groceries are bagged in a way that gives me the best shot at being able to carry them and get them home without crushing anything. I'm always polite and thankful, because what they do helps people and it matters. It also takes skill, judgment, and speed. Also, apparently, a very tolerant attitude toward unpleasant fools. How can that be lowly?
Comment: #3
Posted by: LouisaFinnell
Fri Dec 16, 2011 12:50 PM
My first job was filling sandbags, bagging groceries was a step up!

I certainly didn't and don't think bagging groceries was beneath my dignity. No honest work is. Shame on that mother.
Comment: #4
Posted by: capiscan
Fri Dec 16, 2011 3:58 PM
I don't remember the original letter, but I will join the chorus of previous posters. Being a grocery bagger is beneath some kid's dignity? What did his mother expect? That he'd be hired as a CEO?
Comment: #5
Posted by: Ariana
Fri Dec 16, 2011 9:09 PM
I get that the mom doesn't want to see her kid treated poorly in the work world.

The solution to that isn't to keep the kid out of the work world. It's to make sure you remember that every grocery bagger, server, retail clerk you meet is someone else's kid -- and to treat each of them as you'd want everyone else to treat YOUR kid. (or, as is so often the case these days, your parent or grandparent.)
Comment: #6
Posted by: hedgehog
Sun Dec 18, 2011 6:50 AM
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