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JOHN GRAY'S MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS
Dear John: My husband, "Charles," and I are in our 30s. We've been married for six years and have three children. I'm a stay-at-home mom and Charles has a job that gives him a sense of accomplishment. Charles recently reconnected with Jane,…Read more.
JOHN GRAY'S MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS
Dear John: About a week ago, my 7-year-old daughter had a nasty argument with her best friend. Now the friend has taken up with another girl, and my daughter is heartbroken. What's the best way for me to handle this situation? — Caring Mommy …Read more.
JOHN GRAY'S MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS
Dear John: I'm worried about "Fred," my husband. He's a workout fiend and a nonstop health nut. When I ask him why, he tells me that he's worried about getting old and looking old. John, my husband is only 35!
I'm 33, and while I don't …Read more.
Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, October 29
Dear John: The past month or so I've been overly possessive. If my boyfriend talks to another woman, I feel as if he likes her and not me. I am heavy and have been exercising to lose some weight because it might improve how I feel. Help me gain some …Read more.
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Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, May 24Dear John: Maybe it's all the "Twilight" hoopla, but truly, I enjoy biting and being bitten. Thankfully, my current boyfriend shares my tastes. However, every time we get to fooling around and begin to just nibble on each other, I have this intense desire to bite far too hard. Thankfully, I have restraint and would never actually do that, but for the life of me I cannot figure out why I get these urges. Any ideas on this? — A Bella in the Making, in Portland, Ore. Dear Bella in the Making: Your restraint is admirable (especially when you consider she's not the one with a bloody appetite). You've been lucky to find a mate who shares this fetish. Only he can give you the permission to go as far as you desire. If he turns this request down, do yourself a favor: Channel this sensual instinct into an object that both of you might enjoy together. For example, shift the focus of your chomp from his shoulder to a nice fresh peach you keep on the nightstand. The skin you save might be you own, particularly if your indulging boyfriend chose to bite back. Dear John: Is it OK for me to ask a guy if he loves me? I want some base for the relationship I am in. Dear Needs to Know: Asking your partner if he loves you in the early stages of a relationship is not a good move. Still, considering that you have been in a relationship for over a year now, and you have been intimate, it is appropriate for you to ask the "Do you love me?" question. Often men are reluctant to say, "I love you," because they feel that it might be taken as a commitment to a long-term relationship. You should approach him by saying: "I love you so much. I assume you love me because we have so much fun together. I would love to hear you say you love me, too. If you do, I understand it does not mean you want to get married. It just means that I'm very special to you." If you say it in this manner, I think you'll hear the words you have been waiting to hear.
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