Ethnically Speaking by Larry Meeks

Dear Larry: In all of my 37 years, I never have written a letter to an advice columnist, nor have I felt moved to respond to anything — until today. The letter from "Worried Mom" moved me. In fact, if you had listed a phone number, I would have called immediately.

She wrote to you about the funny feelings she has regarding her new boyfriend's relationship with her 6-year-old son. This needs to be responded to immediately. She needs to take her son to the doctor or emergency room right away. I never have felt so confident about the probability that sexual abuse is happening.

While the mother is in the hospital, I recommend that she call the police so that the new doting boyfriend can be removed from her home and taken to jail. I am sure her son has been damaged. It is her responsibility to pay attention to her instincts and protect her child.

This boyfriend does not have a job, and I believe he does not work because it creates a situation in which he can be alone with her son.

I have said enough. Please, please contact this woman as soon as possible, and tell her to move fast. — DeAnna

Dear DeAnna: I do not have an address or phone number for this mother. I am printing your letter and the following letters in hopes that she will be moved to take action.

From JLR: As a principal of a school, I have heard many horror stories regarding children in their homes. One of the first things one must do is call the local Child Protective Services.

Most counselors and administrators will tell you that one of the first indicators of child molestation is the onset of bed-wetting.

From Another Worried Mom: I have something to say to "Worried Mom": Listen to your instincts! Please run, don't walk, and get away from this man! Your son's actions speak louder than words. There is something going on.

Your boyfriend does not have a job; you are doing all the work; and what is so sad is that you are sacrificing your son, to boot.

Looks to me as if your boyfriend is the one getting all the benefits while you struggle to make ends meet. His job appears to be to keep you hypnotized while he reaps the benefits, including access to your son.

Get this man out of your house before your son is hurt beyond repair. Your boyfriend's behavior is predatory.

You are your son's protector, and he only has you. Please, please don't let your precious child down. Protecting your child is the most important part of your job as a mother.

If you feel you still need this man, then send your son to live with his dad or grandma and grandpa.

Once your child is no longer there, I wonder how long your boyfriend will stick around.

From a Retired Teacher: This boyfriend is a pedophile and a leech. He is sexually abusing this child, and the man is threatening harm to the boy if he should tell.

Larry, tell the mother to move fast.

Dear Readers: We have done all we can. The rest is up to "Worried Mom." If you're listening, please write me again and let me know how you are doing.

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