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Editor's Note: Hundreds of Ann Landers' loyal readers have requested that newspapers continue to publish her columns. These letters originally appeared in 1999.

Dear Ann Landers: Too many parents have no idea what goes on all day in school, and yet, this is a large part of their child's life. I have heard endless complaints about teachers, homework and administrative problems from parents who will not take the time to get involved and find out how they can help. I have a child in grade school, and I would like to offer these suggestions to parents who want to help their children do well in school:

1. Volunteer whenever you can. You'll get a good feel for the place and for the teachers and the support staff.

2. Go to orientations, open houses and conferences. Meet the teachers. Learn their teaching plans. Get the schedule for midterms and final exams. Find out how your child is doing.

3. Join the PTA, and keep current with what is happening in your school and with the students.

4. Review the textbooks your child uses and the work he or she brings home.

5.

Get to know your child's school friends. Meet their parents.

6. Ask about your school's academic test records. Ask the teachers and administration to answer any questions you have. Parents have the right to know.

7. Volunteer for advisory committees and board memberships so you can have a say in the policy of your child's school.

Please print this letter, Ann, so other parents can help their children. — Louisville Mom on the Inside Track

Dear Louisville Mom: You have made some excellent suggestions, and I am sure they are workable. The bottom line is: GET INVOLVED. VOLUNTEER. Do it for your children. Do it for yourself. This is a win-win situation. Today's column may be one of the most valuable you have ever read. Pay attention!

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Want a tip for keeping your kids out of trouble and staying on top of things in their school?

1. On the first day of school, when your kid gets home, talk to him/her about it.
2. In the FIRST WEEK of school, find out the name of EVERY TEACHER and administrator your kid has. Get a copy of the class schedule.
3. Check their notebook/homework, and establish that there's NO TV or VIDEOGAMES until all schoolwork is done.
4. Give the school a number where they can reach you, work and home.

I've testified in custody cases where one parent tried to make the other look incompetent. If I tell the judge "I had no way of contacting the parent because he didn't give us contact info," then I assure you, the parent ends up looking like a moron.
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Posted by: Roger
Sun Feb 5, 2012 12:53 AM
"I have heard endless complaints about teachers, homework and administrative problems from parents who will not take the time to geoong the parents to "help". With so many families, both parents work and, if the kids have extracurricular actitities, that is all they can handle. Is it too much to ask that the school system actually do their job without requiring every single parent to volunteer and "help". With what????? That, along with the multiple hours of homework starting in grade school, parents don't have time to do the teacher's job too. It seems that the teachers are already pawning their responsibility to teach the kids during the day off on the parents at night. First of all, the parents haven't sat through your teaching methods and may not have the ABILITY to help their children with the new methods. Second, in order to just "get it over with" many parents basically do the homework/projects themselves because of the frustration in trying to teach stuff that should have been taught during the day in school. This leads to many children getting better grades than they deserve and does not adequately address their actual learning.
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Posted by: Julie
Sun Feb 5, 2012 9:09 AM
@Julie - well, true to a certain extent, but the parents have some responsibility in making sure the homework gets done, and if the child won't or can't do it, they need to be part of the solution. The teacher can't make sure the child does homework, beyond giving them a poor grade if they don't. A parent's responsibility can't be limited to looking at a report card twice a year, then punishing or rewarding the child. I can't comment on parents who do the work for the children, I haven't experienced that (or haven't noticed it).
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Posted by: Steve C
Mon Feb 6, 2012 12:18 AM
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